Letters to Lincoln
This is a blog about Lincoln Wilson's early years. His mom has tried to capture little details of his everyday life so they won't be forgotten. Warning: this blog will probably bore you to death, but his family finds it very entertaining!!
Lincoln Wilson's Blog

June 30, 2009

A lot has happened since the last time I wrote to you...you are officially a big brother now!  You have a baby sister....when you found out that the baby was a girl, you said "I knew it". You were so proud of yourself for knowing that you were having a baby sister. You call her "baby" instead of her name!

The other night she was crying and you held your hand up like a stop sign to her and said very calmly "baby, please, just a little quieter. I'm watching tv."  It was adorable because she was screaming her ...<< MORE >>

May 6, 2009

Last night you didn't want to go to bed, so your daddy picked you up and carried you to your room to put you to bed. A few seconds later, I heard the two of you fall down, and your daddy started screaming in pain. You immediately started yelling for me. So I ran into your room, and by then you were standing up but your daddy was stil yelling in pain on the floor. Right when I got into the room, you started crying...so I swooped you up and began checking you over for injuries.

You had no ...<< MORE >>

May 3, 2009

You got in trouble this week during karate because you wouldn't listen to the karate teacher. He didn't give you a sticker as a result, and you were highly upset. But you didn't deserve a sticker!  So, we made you a sticker chart so you can associate stickers as a reward instead of an expectation. Today after church you were helping pack and clean up so you got a bonus sticker because you were working so hard. You remind me of myself with the way that you like to do physical labor. I will take credit for that...I'm sure you ...<< MORE >>

April 24, 2009

Earlier tonight you were trying to play on your favorite website, but the computer wasn't exactly moving at the speed you thought it should. You said "what is wrong with this stupid computer". I don't have to guess where you picked that up from because I'm certain those exact words come out of my mouth at least once a week.

Your daddy and I had the day off of work, which meant you had the day off of daycare. I hate that you have to go to daycare. You've come home with some vulger behavior lately and I don't ...<< MORE >>

April 22, 2009

You are sitting here putting bugs down my shirt as I write...and you are laughing your head off. They are actually the plastic bugs (72 to be exact) that you got for Christmas. I'm pretending to be afraid of the bugs in my shirt and it's making you laugh even more!

You can do math and it's something we haven't even worked on!  You wanted to go to your G'ma's house because you heard she had cookies at her house. After she explained to you that she only has 2 cookies, you said "well, I only want to eat ...<< MORE >>

April 10, 2009

Thank you son!  You paid off a bank loan for your parents today, and we sure do appreciate it!!  The teller giggled when I told her you were paying our loan off. She may have been giggling at the bunny ears you were wearing, but I think she was equally impressed with your responsibility. You and I rolled all the pennies in your piggy bank & went to the bank to deposit them this morning, so it was just fitting for you to pay our loan off...it was exactly 1 penny. Yes, your parents still owed 1 penny on our ...<< MORE >>

April 6, 2009

It is the 1st day of our week long vacation. I am so excited because we're going to the Master's par 3. We have a lot of other things planned, so I shouldn't be sitting here on the computer wasting precious time!  But I want to take a minute to tell you about a good deed your daddy did...it was a true act of love towards me, and one that was completely unexpected.

The other night we were at Carrabba's and the second our food hit the table, you announced that you had to "go poop". It couldn't ...<< MORE >>

April 1, 2009

I wish I had a good April Fool's prank to play on you, but the truth is you are sick and that's not too funny. Last night you came down with a fever & you were acting very poopy.  Your G'ma said when she picked you up at daycare, you were dragging your feet and acting really sluggish.This morning you weren't much better so I took you to the doctor. Of course, by the time you got there your Tylenol had kicked in pretty good and you were acting fine, and without a fever!!  My main concern was that you might have an ...<< MORE >>

March 30, 2009

 Drum roll…..tonight you wrote your name from memory all by yourself. Usually I have to write it for you to copy from, but tonight you did it all by yourself!!

Whatever we teach you shows up weeks  (sometimes months) later…it’s a delayed reaction. So, tonight you demonstrated a skill you and I began worked on Valentine’s Day…and we’ve worked on it since then, but I made a huge effort on Valentine’s Day to really make it stick with you. And I guess it worked.

Of course, I could be mistakenly taking ...<< MORE >>

March 26, 2009 3.5 years

Your G'ma informed me that it's been over a month since I've written to you. So, I have a lot of catching up about all the little things you are doing these days. This is going to be a bunch of rambling trying to catch up on details of the last month, so it might not all flow very well. 

 I really like this age. One main thing you've been doing lately is helping...you are very service oriented, and you have such a cooperative spirit when it comes to helping out.

You seem to really enjoy helping me cook. ...<< MORE >>

February 22, 2009

It is clear that your love language is physical touch. You always want us to rub your feet, scratch your back, scratch your head, hold you and love on you. It's funny because you are just like me and it helps your daddy understand my love language better. So, thanks!

Yesterday you helped your daddy clean the vehicles. You came inside all dirty because you had helped clean the wheels. You tell him that he is your super special best friend. I love the relationship you two have. Last night you laid your head on my belly and talked to your ...<< MORE >>

February 16, 2009

I love how you say refrigerator...you say "fritter frator". You crack me up.

You are such a good little helper...you insisted on helping me make breakfast this morning. We made omelets and toast. You beat the eggs and put the cheese on the omelets. You also handled every aspect of making the toast (except for removing it from the toaster), and it was very yummy. You were so proud of yourself for helping make breakfast. I was very proud of you because your attention to sanitary conditions. You walked into the living room when you started coughing, and you ...<< MORE >>

February 9, 2009 almost 3.5 years

We've been without cable and internet for over a week, but I figured out how to use the air card so we're back in business....well, half way. You were fine without cable, but I think you reall missed playing disney games on the internet....or the "puter" as you call it.

You've started telling me and your daddy that we are your best friend. But when it's time to go to bed, you make sure to let us know you don't like us anymore. It's funny!  Your g'ma brought you over some new underwear and you liked them so ...<< MORE >>

January 18, 2009

I just have to take a minute to capture the details of this cute moment in your life! 

Earlier I put an empty 2 liter coca cola bottle (contraband compliments of your G'ma) next to the trashcan. You grabbed the bottle about an hour ago and you've been pretending it's your little baby sister. You gave her the name "Nee Nee Hooba" and the two of you have been inseparable.

You put stickers all over her, rocked her to sleep in her baby swing, and you two chased a ball all over the house together.  You even let ...<< MORE >>

January 14, 2009 3 years old

I love that you can really comprehend and absorb everything we say to you. If I want something to really stick out in your mind, I have to break it down Barney style....but once you get it, you really get it. And I love that you are a kind, caring little boy. You've started telling me out of the blue lately that you love me, which warms my heart. The other night I had to giggle because you were eating your cookies (the ones that the lady at the store bought you) & you asked me if I wanted one. ...<< MORE >>

January 8, 2009

It's official: your G'ma has hired a little old lady to follow us around the grocery store & make sure you don't leave without junk food in hand. I should have suspected something when we first bumped into her on the cookie aisle...you were really having a hard time choosing between Pop Tarts or cookies, so I helped walk you through the decision process. She must have seen the whole thing.

She ended up behind us in line & overheard me telling you "no" when you were trying to sneak M&M's into the mix of our groceries. Then you ...<< MORE >>

January 2, 2009

Earlier you tagged along with me to venture out into the cold, rainy weather to grab a bite to eat. I was in search of something with a drive thru so you suggested "donalds"...which made the decision easy and cheap. I'm okay with McDonald's now that we can order apples instead of fries in your chicken nugget happy meal....you don't realize that the fries are missing!

So, as we approached the drive thru, you spotted the indoor playground and completely reacted with pure SHOCK!!  You said "Oh, donalds has a slide inside...I want to go inside". At this point, ...<< MORE >>

January 1, 2009

You've stayed at home with your daddy for the past 2 weeks, and you and I are both dreading Monday when you have to go back to daycare. Yesterday was the beginning of 2009. Your daddy reminded me that we met 9 years ago...that seems like a really long time, but it's just the beginning actually.

Yesterday I was sorting through some things in the office, and I ended up throwing away a bunch of stuff we don't need....including one piece of your artwork. In 2008, I collected no less than 200 different pictures you've drawn, and I even though I ...<< MORE >>

December 28, 2008

You have an imaginary "boo boo" on your foot and you've put a band-aid on it for 2 days in a row now. << MORE >>

December 28, 2008

Now your daddy is sick. You had 4 straight days of fever...poor baby!  Yesterday (Saturday) was your first full day without a fever since Monday but you are still coughing and have a runny nose. So, we're just hanging out at home today.  

Yesterday you and I went to the store to stock up on some food and paper items. I really enjoy taking you shopping with me because it's an opportunity for you to learn about value and nutrition.  Taking you to the store always makes me laugh!!  Yesterday I was trying to decide on buying a can ...<< MORE >>

December 26, 2008 3 years old

you just looked at us like we're nuts and decided to ignore our advice. It was a close call...you didn't actually throw up. << MORE >>

December 6, 2008

Well you are just growing up to be such a considerate and kind young boy. Last night while I was giving you a bath, I suddenly had morning sickness...luckily, I was right next to the toilet. As I was puking my guts out, you reassured me "It's okay, mommy", and you reached over and flushed the toilet for me.

You don't know how much I appreciated that courtesy flush because it was making me even sicker coming face to face with the puke in the toilet!  Very considerate of you!

Each day you check with me to make ...<< MORE >>

December 1, 2008

Yesterday we came home from our Thanksgiving trip to Alabama. It was such a good time, and we got to visit with a lot of family, including my grandma. You were soooo attached to your "big grandma", and you kept crawling up in her chair to sit next to her. You were so gentle and calm while you were sitting by her. You are as attached to her as I am!  It was just sweet watching you and her together.

You said the best part about your trip to Alabama was "the puppies". Every morning the first thing you ...<< MORE >>

November 24, 2008

You just expressed your cocern about your own financial stability during the current economic problems facing our nation. We didn't realize it's possible that a 3 year old could be worried about the economy. But as we were discussing what we're going to do for our week off from work, I mentioned to you and your daddy that we need to deposit your piggy bank coins into your "big bank".

Well, that prompted a strong reaction from you. You made sure to inform us that the big bank is closed because it's "broke" and nobody is there. You went on ...<< MORE >>

November 23, 2008

Yay Lincoln!!!  You earned your white belt in karate yesterday!!  

You've been taking karate classes since September 1, 2008...so technically, you began karate when you were two years old. And yesterday you were the only 3 year old in the group...the youngest karate chopper there!   And you were also the cutest little kid there too!

Although your daddy had to work ALL DAY  yesterday (he left the house at 7:30 am and didn't get home from working until almost 8:00 pm!), he was there to watch your first karate test. And boy, you were sure glad he was ...<< MORE >>

November 15, 2008

Gas Price: $1.88

I'm noticing a trend lately...you have taken a definite interest in explaining to me about things that are gender specific. For example, you wouldn't eat a piece of your halloween candy because it was pink bubble gum. You said you wouldn't eat it because "this gum is for girls".

Why can't all candy be pink?

The other day you told your g'ma that she needs to put a bow in her hair!  Apparently you've been talking to your Aunt Dea Dea, who won't let your little cousins go into public without bows. I like ...<< MORE >>

November 11, 2008

You have a double ear infection and a touch of pneumonia, but I had no clue until you suddenly developed a fever late this afternoon. We took you straight to the doctor, and I'm glad we did because who knows how bad it would have gotten otherwise. You were energetic with no hint of being sick, so I wouldn't have known you were sick.

You're actually a pretty tough kid and you were really good at the doctor's office. Tomorrow your g'ma is going to stay home with you because she already has the day off. What luck!!  ...<< MORE >>

November 8, 2008 3 yrs

It seems you have a sibling on the way.You have your mind made up...you want a baby sister. That part is consistent. We have that in common because I'd love to have a little girl also! 

Last night for the very first time, you drew a "real" picture....a picture that is beyond scribbling. You said it was a picture of "daddy". It was so adorable and it really does resemble your daddy. I think it's absolutely beautiful. I'm not really sure if you are behind or right on track with drawing pictures, but I really did wonder why ...<< MORE >>

November 1, 2008

Well, it appears you now have aspirations to be a mayor!  Yes, indeed...I asked you "Lincoln, where do you want to work when you grow up", and your response was "at the whole town". That can only mean one thing...you want to be mayor.

Let's take a minute to review your current qualifications for being a mayor, and areas where some growth needs to take place. I'll use the qualities you demonstrated last night when your worked the halloween shift on "candy duty".


Job Title:  Halloween Candy Distributor
Time frame: October 31, 2008 7:00 pm - ...<< MORE >>

October 29, 2008

You and I tried a social experiment at the store earlier, with highly successful results. You are a naturally shy child, and this causes a certain level of awkwardness in social settings when you refuse to speak to people or acknowledge them when they speak to you. I fully understand the concept of being uncomfortable with socializing...you are my son, so you take after me!!  However, being shy is only "cute" until you are about 5 years old. Well okay, it wasn't very cute when you didn't speak to anyone for 2 hours during your second birthday, but you get a pass because you had just ...<< MORE >>

October 27, 2008

Gas price today: $2.49

Your G'ma just whisked you away to play at your cousins' house, and your daddy is gone too. So, I have the place to myself and can't think of anything better to do than write to you. I've really been slacking on writing to you lately, so I have a list of things to write to you about.


Gas Prices:
Your daddy told me he wants to me to tell you what the gas prices are on a regular basis. So, whenever I think of it, I'll post it at the beginning ...<< MORE >>

October 26, 2008


Nevermind Halloween and Thanksgiving, Christmas is right around the corner!!  After snapping about 100 pictures, this is it...your official Fall picture.  I'm trying to decide what to do for your Christmas picture this year.  I'm not much into Santa pictures, so we'll have to figure something else out. 

We've got two Christmas presents for you that you said you wanted....those are probably the only two presents you'll get from your parents...an aircraft carrier and a whole bunch of bugs.  I'm most excited about the bugs.  Since you are a boy, you are going to be expected to "handle" bug situations throughout your life, and we are trying to prepare you now!!!  Your girl cousins have started to rub off on you....if we don't take drastic action now to counter their influence, your manhood will be in danger.  Without intervention in this area, you will never be able to nicely dispose of a spider or bait a fishing pole hook.  If you can't do those two things in life, then you are doomed. 

This is stage 1...we've ordered you a "bug set" consisting of 72 plastic bugs of all types.  I hope there are a few different types of worms and spiders in there because those are the ones you are not allowed to fear as a guy!!  It is socially unacceptable for males to run screaming in fear at the sight of a bug.  Giving you a bunch of plastic bugs for Christmas is one way to safely get you aquainted with insects.  After you're tired of playing with plastic bugs...we imagine by next Christamas...we'll move on to stage 2.  

Stage Two is an ant farm or another real live bug container.  We really like the idea of you having an ant farm.  In addition to preparing you to not be afraid of bugs, we view an ant farm as a very low-maintenance option for having a pet.    

Ants eat very little, they don't take up much space, they don't require vaccinations or trips to the vet, they don't chew on furniture, they don't smell bad, they are quiet, they don't require baths, and they don't poop all over the floor.  As an added bonus, it's perfectly okay if they happen to die because insects are not expected to have a long life span anyway.  And for all of the low maintenance, they are fascinating to watch, and will provide hours of entertainment.  I really think ants are truly perfect pets.  Maybe we'll find out next year if you think they are fun also!!

Oh, I need to mention that you recently had a toilet seat accident.  You were using the bathroom standing up, and the toilet seat slammed down on you!!  You were injured, but everything was still in tact.  Your daddy and G'ma took you to the doctor, who said you are going to be just fine in the near future and for long-term purposes.  It was just an unfortunate accident, and I'm happy to say you didn't regress! 

Gotta run.
I love you my sweet little baby BOY!














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October 6, 2008

The logic of a 3-year old is complicated to understand. You insist on wearing your underwear backward. I can’t figure out exactly why, but I have noted that you only wear them the wrong way when they have pictures on them. You have no problem putting on your plain underwear correctly.

Saturday you went outside to wash all the cars with your daddy. It was the cutest thing when I walked outside and say you in the middle of giving your little play car a bath too!  You washed it, then rinsed it with the water hose….just like ...<< MORE >>

September 30, 2008

Our family gets a C+ in our test of a day free from technology. One big discovery of the day is that I do not want to live the rest of my life without all the technological conveniences in life…technology makes our family more productive and efficient.

However, it was a quiet day, and we got lots of sleep...which was different!

The first difference is that I didn’t set our alarm, so we slept in until 7:30 am. It was fantastic, but without coffee, I never fully woke up!  Instead of going to daycare, you tagged ...<< MORE >>

September 28, 2008

I'm declaring tomorrow "No Technology Day" in our household. Yesterday I informed your father of this, and he just looked at me in disbelief. We are spending one day being old fashioned, and it's truly unbelievable.

What a day free from technology means:

Television:  It means the T.V. will not be on during our morning routine, or at any point tomorrow. We won't instantly know what's going on in the world the second it happens. That's fine with me because most of the information I put into my head doesn't matter...it's just taking up brain space that needs to be used ...<< MORE >>

September 24, 2008


How I know there wasn’t a mix up at the hospital when you were born:

  • Your pinkies are crooked…like mine
  • You have your daddy’s feet, which look just like your G’ma’s feet…so I guess there wasn’t a mix up at the hospital when he was born either
  • You are a morning person and you get really cranky beginning promptly at 8:30 every night…like me
  • You seem to enjoy fishing and camping…you get this from both of us
  • You love guacamole…when I was pregnant with you, I craved guacamole and avocados daily
  • ...<< MORE >>

September 21, 2008 3 years

It’s perplexing how easily you fall asleep in the car. We’ve determined it’s definitely not because your car seat is so wonderfully comfortable. I really need to hurry up and pinpoint exactly what it is about the car that induces a deep sleep for you so I can bottle it…as soon as I make that big “discovery” your college education will be covered.

 

You had a very big day ...<< MORE >>

September 19, 2008

We are observing your birthday this weekend, so your Aunt Dea Dea baked cupcakes for you to take to all your little friends today! You really lucked out in the Aunt department   ...<< MORE >>

September 17, 2008

After a solid two years of being highly self-sufficient in feeding yourself, it amazes me that your spaghetti still ends up all over your shirt.

At least you are no longer radioactive, but your G'ma did give you juice today against doctor's orders. Of course, I alerted her what the doctor advised in a text. Since since she's a bit technologically challenged, she might not even realize she has a text message to read!!

Your cousins swung by and dropped off our camera a little earlier.  They were very worried about your health so they wanted to see with their ...<< MORE >>

September 16, 2008

You must be radioactive because you had fluorescent green diarrhea last night. It's not pretty. Plus all last night you complained that your eye was hurting. You have such a high tolerance to pain, so whenever you complain, we need to listen!! 

So, your birthday was yesterday...and we're pretending that it's next week because there just wasn't enough time to squeeze in for baking a cake this weekend. You are 3. You won't know the difference right now. 



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September 14, 2008

You are taking karate classes now, and you seem to be learning a lot. Your moves are very smart and sharp. Yesterday we went to your cousin's birthday party. It was a lot of fun!  Your Auntie Dea Dea is making cup cakes for your birthday!!  ...<< MORE >>

September 8, 2008

Here is a collection of all the texts about you I sent to your daddy throughout the past week :

Linc got some baseball shoes.

Linc is hungry...so am I...U probably r2....and your blood sugar is probably plummeting.

Linc slammed his finger in the car door...it's not broke, but his nail might fall off.

Lincoln just built a "gun" with his lego blocks and handed it to me...He said "here's a gun for you". I told him guns are not nice and we don't play with guns.

Now he's building a skyscraper with an unstable foundation...better than ...<< MORE >>

September 7, 2008 - almost 3

You are going into SPACE!!!  NASA is sending your name into outer space as part of the Kepler Mission to find Earth-size and smaller planets. This is your first step to becoming an astronaut, should you choose that career path.

However, over the past few days you've expressed more of an interest in becoming a farmer. You have created a farm that has exactly one cow. You are dedicated to maintaining your farm, and you are exploring possible expansion options.

You've even introduced a dinosaur to be friends with the cow, and you've arranged for a very large aquatic animal to visit ...<< MORE >>

September 1, 2008

Well happy Labor Day my sweet little boy.

I think you have to go to the bathroom because you look like you are doing the pee pee dance, but you deny that you have to. Time tells all truths, so we shall see what happens!

You and I went to the grocery store earlier and you were singing the sweetest little song all over the store.
You were such a good little boy the whole time, and funny too!  You were walking a few feet behind me and I took a left turn down an aisle....you ...<< MORE >>

August 26, 2008

Caught!  When I picked you up from daycare today, you were holding hands with a little girl in your class. I conducted a background check on her and discovered the following information:  her name is Danielle and she turns 3 in December. She doesn't hold hands with any other little boys in class, and you don't hold hands with any other little girls in class. She seems harmless enough, except I've noted that she has a very serious addiction....a pacifier addiction!!!  I'm not sure if she is potty trained, but I doubt it.

Yesterday she was checking out my ...<< MORE >>

August 26, 2008

You woke up early telling us that you need to go to the doctor because you have a boo boo on your back. You wouldn't let me kiss it...you said the doctor needs to put medicine on it to make it feel better.

Now you are telling me that your daddy cooked breakfast for you, and he did. He made English muffins for you and he didn't even set off the smoke detector doing it!  Usually whenever we use the toaster or oven, our smoke detector activates! 

Whenever I'm cooking and that happens, Daddy likes to make a really ...<< MORE >>

August 24, 2008

Oh one more thing...your cousin's birthday is coming up. She's turning 5. She told me that she wants a "dress with diamonds on it" for her birthday!  haha!  She's such a girl. ...<< MORE >>

August 24, 2008

We began the day learning about privacy. Earlier this morning when I was about to get into the shower you refused to leave the bathroom, so you and I had to have a talk about privacy. It was cute because after our talk, you closed the door and left me alone, but then you came right back with about 5 hand towels telling me you brought me a towel. That was a very kind effort, but I "shooed" you away again and finally you did leave me alone. So just while ago, I was trying to help you go potty in the bathroom, but ...<< MORE >>

Augusto 21, 2008: 2 years/11 months!

Finally, you are almost 3 and you learned how to hold up two fingers like bunny ears!  I was so excited when you did it!!  All this time, you have held up both index fingers to indicate the number 2, but you finally did it right last night. But you still cannot hold up 3 fingers. I was beginning to wonder if something was wrong with your little fingers!  It seems to simply be a lack of coordination.

We are enrolling you in a "martial arts" class. It's something that your daddy has wanted you to do, and so now ...<< MORE >>

August 17, 2008

I forgot to mention something that ended up being a very minor incident while we were on our trip. We were driving (speeding) down the road, we got pulled over. You saw the lights and heard the sirens and said "look, a woo woo car". That's what you call emergency response vehicles of any type....they are "woo woo" cars.

So, we got pulled over by a woo woo car...it was actually a state trooper...and after he explained to us that he was only issuing a warning, your daddy asked if he could please say hi to you in the ...<< MORE >>

August 14, 2008

A sign that you are growing up: you refuse to say "gaga" now and you've started calling her "Grand - Ma"...you enunciate by distinctly saying each syllable as if they are two different words. Make no mistake...she's not your "gramma" or "gaga". And so the sweet little baby name "gaga" that you gave her a long time ago has now officially become more formal. You had started referring to her as "my friend gaga". But I haven't yet heard you say "my friend Grand - Ma" so I don't know if it's any less cute.

It's simply an indication that my little baby boy just took ...<< MORE >>

August 12, 2008

You are completely engaged in watching the diving portion of the Olympics....you keep saying "I want to do that in the water"  and "I'm not scared". It looks pretty boring to me, but you are absolutely thrilled watching it. Hmmm....I wonder if that's any indication of your future skills?  You do like the water, but I think you are a little too cautious to do it yourself. But you really are glued to the television. And, you said "I want to go there mommy". And forget that you can't even pronounce the word "Olympics"...you still want to do it. So, the next 16 ...<< MORE >>

August 12, 2008

You told me that you wanted to hold the broom at the top of the handle like I do, but I said you have to grow up and get big before you can reach that high like me. And I explained that you grow up by eating vegetables and milk. So, you went straight to the fridge and opened saying "I want to eat, I want to grow up". haha!  So, I coaxed you into going to the bathroom as your first step to making a serious attempt at growing up. And that was all the encouragement you needed to go ...<< MORE >>

August 11, 2008

Today you stayed at home with your daddy and guess what arrived in the mail?  You received a letter from the President of the United States of America....George W. Bush. This is the start of a new trend...It's my goal to see to it that you receive a letter from each President of the United States for the rest of your life. 

You are sitting here "shooting hoops" into the laundry basket. When you miss, you say "awe, guys", but when you make the shot, you say "look I did it". You just asked your G'ma "you want to play basketball?"  haha! ...<< MORE >>

August 10, 2008

You had a great time playing with your cousins today. You all swam in the pool and there was a bubble machine. You swim like a little fish and it's adorable watching your little feet kick in the water. You took a late nap and now you are awake way past your bedtime!!  Oh boy.

You said you were hungry for pizza...actually, you said you are a dinosaur who is hungry for pizza....you said "I can eat it all by me self". It's funny because instead of doing things all "my"self, you say "me"self. You sound just like a little leprechaun when you ...<< MORE >>

August 9, 2008

Wow you had a big day for a little boy. Your cousins came over for a few hours and you had a blast playing with them. Your gaga (you're now saying G'ma but I just can't stop writing "gaga") was here and she devoted much to her time to little Payton. But my biggest accomplishment was painting your older cousin's toenails...I gave her a french pedicure. She was very impressed, but she is only 4 so maybe it doesn't take too much to impress her.

You still don't share your toys too well...but you love playing with your cousins! ...<< MORE >>

August 9, 2008

Today is the day your little cousins are coming over to play with you!  I'm in the middle of making breakfast for you and your daddy....you are a little sleepy head this morning. You never sleep this late!! 

Your baby cousing Payton started rolling over!!!  She's growing up so fast!  Gotta go and get ready for a houseful of kids. Oh, I think your gaga might stop by today also. She said she has some errands to run...your daddy said that's code for "I'm going shopping".

ha ha!

Oh, last night during dinner you were so ...<< MORE >>

August 8, 2008

I'm not going to repeat all the curse words that flew out of your daddy's mouth while he was putting up the molding. Actually, there were only 4 different words...used mutliple times and in a variety of new ways!!  If we find that you've added them to your vocabulary, it's pretty obvious where they came from.

I'm about to fall asleep writing...I definitely turn into a pumpkin when it gets past my bedtime. 
I love you my sweet baby boy!! 



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August 7, 2008

Well, I have to write about a battle between your parents that was finally resolved once and for all today! 

For the past 6 years we've had an ongoing source of tension stemming from a jersey-style sub restaurant he has loved since he was a little boy. From the first moment we ate there, I was unimpressed to say the least. Over the years I grew to tolerate it but  I've never liked that place and I try to get out of eating there whenever he suggests it. All the bad mouthing I've done over the years seemed ...<< MORE >>

August 7, 2008

So today is Thursday...and our week of being off work is almost over. Today you and I are going to make a trip to the grocery store. This morning you woke up...when I came into the room to say good morning to you, you said "please take me to my daddy". You are highly attached to your father!  I carried you into the office to see your daddy, and you asked to take your shirt off like daddy.

You love him sooo much!  Today and tomorrow we're just working around the house making some repairs to close out our ...<< MORE >>

August 5, 2008

We watched an imax movie full of fighter jets...surprisingly, you seemed highly interested until you fell asleep towards the end of it!  The highlight of your trip was playing with the doggies at my cousin's house. It was good that you got your doggy fix because that's as close to getting a real dog as you're going to get until you're an adult!

We made a pitstop at the railroad museum, and the most interesting thing about it was that a train passed by going about 60 miles an hour...I took some pictures of it passing, and ...<< MORE >>

July 30, 2008

Last night your G'ma came to visit, and she fell asleep sitting straight up on the couch because she had been up since 2am. After I gave you a bath, you really were determined that your G'ma was going to read a book to you, regardless of if she was awake to do it.

So, you brought her a book and said "gaga, read me a book", and she mumbled something in her sleep, so you got really happy and told me "she said yes". But then there was no follow through with her actually reading the book because ...<< MORE >>

July 29, 2008


This is my favorite picture from your 3 year pictures.  We have your pictures made early each year for your birthday.  You are up early this morning...what an early bird!

You've started a new game where you pretend that I'm your G'ma.  Yesterday morning and evening you refused to acknowledge me as your mother because you thought it was cute to pretend I was your "gaga".    Everytime I said "your mommy loves you, Lincoln", you said "no, you're gaga".  It was cute!  So finally I gave in and pretended to be gaga...everytime you referred to me as gaga, I said "oh, are your hands clean, let's go wash your hands".  Your G'ma is always concerned that your hands are dirty. 

Yesterday you stayed home with your daddy.  This morning when I woke up I realized you had stashed toys everywhere.  I found a bag full of paper plates and bowls...I guess you were packing to go on a trip!

This weekend you and your cousins went to a child id event.  It was crowded and hot but they recorded your voice, took fingerprints and a dna sample.  There was a fire truck there and I got a shot of you and your cousins sitting on the back of it.  We went to eat at a restaurant, and your big cousin only wanted to eat gummy bears!  It was definitely an experience taking 3 little kids out to eat.  But you all did very well. 

Then we came back to our house and played.  Your big cousin was amazed that we have DVR capabilities....she described it over the phone to her dad like this "they can press a button and rewind the tv".   We had a lot of fun and you really cried your heart out when they left.  Your auntie said Riley was talking in her sleep about you!  Funny

Last night you took your pull up off and put a new one on.  Honestly, if you can do all that, you can just march right into the bathroom and use it like a big boy!  Wow, as I just wrote that, you came in here and said "mommy, I have to go potty"...so I turned the light on for you and you went just like a big boy! 

It's amazing watching you grow up.  You say the cutest things, like substituing "me" for "my"...."I want to play with me toys".  It's as if you are Irish.  I'm excited about what the future holds for you.  We're about to take a trip to the zoo because you think all animals that roar are dinosaurs...like the lion in your book the other day.  I think we need to go to the zoo each year...maybe a few times a year.  I love how you imitate a monkey...it's so sweet! 

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July 24, 2008

Today my mom would have been 66 years old. That's old! 
Last night you and I were watching videos from when you were a little baby. I was looking for when we went to Galveston because your class has been talking about the ocean. But we didn't find it. I need to get our videos organized so we can easily put our finger on what we want to watch.

We were looking at pictures on my phone last night and you wanted to see pictures of you and your friend bouncing at his house last week.

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July 23, 2008

You brought home a new book and a coupon for a free ice cream cone. We read the book to you a total of about 15 times between your daddy, me and your G'ma. You giggled each time because you seem to really love that book. It's "Where is Spot". So we went and got your ice cream.

We also dropped off 206 pictures to be developed. I really like pictures.

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July 22, 2008

Last night you decided to change clothes in the middle of the living room....pull-up and all. But as soon as you stripped down, you didn't put your new clothes and pull up on. You climbed in the recliner & I told you to put your clothes on because you're not supposed to have your bare bottom on the furniture. Your response tickled me...you said "I'll sit on my knees".

Even though it was funny, I still had to wrestle you to make you put on your clothes!! 

You and your daddy went to a movie yesterday. I ...<< MORE >>

July 20, 2008

Wow, you've had a big weekend. Yesterday you and I went shopping...you were a good little boy so you got some train tracks. We were at a red light, and as soon as the green arrow popped up, you yelled "GREEN". You must have been paying attention all this time!

 Then we went over to your friend Jake's house to visit with him. You really enjoyed playing with him...you two jumped in his inflatable jump thing, and you rode your trucks together. It was so sweet watching you two play together. But then he got sick and we left.
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July 19, 2008

Your G'ma griped at me for not keeping your blog up to date more frequently, so I'm acting on her concern!!  Last night you and your G'ma played while your daddy and I went out on a date. It was an unplanned date but it was enjoyable. We went and saw a movie and we were "giddy" the entire time. It was fun. We ate an entire bucket of popcorn, which we don't get an opportunity to do often.

Last night your G'ma got you to actually say "Grand-Ma" instead of your usual "Ga Ga". We always knew you ...<< MORE >>

July 15, 2008

Your dad and I have decided we're going to start charging you $1.00 for each poopy pull-up we have to change. You've started to realize the value of money, so maybe you'll be motivated to poop on the toilet if you have to lose money for each poopy pull-up.

Your G'ma got you some big boy underwear with Lightening McQueen and TowMator...maybe wearing them will help motivate you to poop like a big boy too?

This morning you and I are going to vote. I took you the last time, and you got to make all the selections ...<< MORE >>

July 10, 2008

It's been a little while since I've had any time to devote to writing you because all my free time lately has been devoted to work for a deadline. So, right now I cannot sleep...and want to take this sleepless moment to write you while the opportunity is here.

The other night you told your daddy  "Daddy, you have poo poos in your mouth".  At first I throught you were telling him that his breath was stinky, but he had just gargled with mouthwash a few minutes before. So, maybe you were just teasing him.

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July 1, 2008

Your Ga Ga came over for a visit and she fell asleep on the couch!  She was snoring, and you started giggling at her but she never woke up.

You were just putting together your U.S. map puzzle.  This morning you had all the pieces out all over the floor, but I told you we had to put on your shoes to get ready to go bye bye. But when I sat down on the floor to help put your shoes on, I must have sat on a piece of your puzzle because you fussed at me, saying "Get ...<< MORE >>

July 1, 2008

This was the first time we had our family picture made!!  Very fun!! ...<< MORE >>

June 26, 2008

Wow...today marks 22 years since your G'ma passed away. You never knew her and I'm just so sad about that, but the saddest part is that she never got to meet you. You bring so much joy to our lives, and I just know you would have brought so much joy to hers also. You are named after her, so she's always a part of your life. I just really didn't want her to be forgotten, and giving you her name would help carry her memory in your life even after I'm gone.

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June 25, 2008

You were singing in the shower last night, and you continued to sing long after you got out. It was so sweet, even though I'm not sure which song you were actually singing!  You went potty really well all evening, but you couldn't poop on the toilet. We'll work on that part some more!  You didn't have a wet pull-up all evening, and I bet you'll wake up dry this morning too. You're doing so well at going potty in the toilet when you wake up.

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June 23, 2008

You and I were just throwing the football to each other. You did really well whenever you threw from your ear. You've decided you aren't so thrilled with wii boxing because I knocked you out. You went and hid your face in your chair after you fell over in the ring. You're a really sore loser!!!  hee hee!!  Your daddy feld sympathy for you while I was knocking you out! 

So you just kicked me out of the recliner. You are on a hunt for pudding. You already ate one, but you just pulled out another one. I really ...<< MORE >>

June 22, 2008 2 yrs 9 mos

You are eating an apple right now. Yesterday we went and visited Jane...she's a friend of mine. We got to see her new grandbaby. She thought you were the cutest baby she'd ever seen until her grandson was born!

We went to a baseball game Friday night. It was a lot of fun, and you are definitely afraid of mascots. But we had a nice time.

Your daddy is playing golf 3 days in a row. I think his game is improving, but the better he gets, the more he wants to be on the golf course.
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June 16, 2008

You and I were playing on your chalkboard and you traced the letter "L" that I had written in dots...you connected all the dots into a solid letter. So, I realized you are ready for pre-school workbook activities. You did so well!!  You circled all the same numbers on each page...all the 1's...all the 2's...all the 3's and so on. You didn't do so hot at tracing the letters like you did on the chalkboard because they were really small. But you did well otherwise.

Not so shabby for the 1st time.

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June 14, 2008 2 yrs 9 mos

You are pretending to be a puppy dog...I guess that means we don't give you enough attention!!  Your G'ma is watching you while l go take a test this afternoon. Your G'ma smuggled in some cookies when she came over. They were in a bag and caught my eye. She said she thought she could sneak them in unnoticed, but I caught her. Ha!  Oh well, you'd prefer to eat goldfish crackers over cookies anyway if given the choice. We have you trained well, but still room for improvement.

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June 6, 2008

You talk in complete sentences while sleeping!  I heard you say, while sound asleep, "I don't want to close my eyes". You repeated it twice in the sweetest voice.  You are definitely sweet when you sleep, so it makes sense that you have a sweet voice also when you sleep!

Time just flies so fast. Before we know it, you will be grown.

You have officially call your Aunt, "Auntie". I find it cute and unusual because I grew up saying "Aunt" so & so...never "auntie". So, Auntie it is for you. The other night I was sending your ...<< MORE >>

June 1, 2008

Today is the 1st day of hurricane season!  Let the fun begin...Actually, maybe the fun is ending since tornado season is winding down.

You are so adorable. You want so badly to be just like your daddy...you take your shirt off if he has his off. You imitate him every chance. That's a huge responsibility on his part because if he slips up and does something that isn't so desirable, then you'll develop that same undesirable behavior.

I've asked your G'ma to coordinate "cousin day". Your Auntie and I have talked about getting together once or twice ...<< MORE >>

May 28, 2008

We also ate at Marietta Diner, which serves the best chocolate mousse cake known to man. It was so delicious. We ended up going to the Georgia Aquarium & you really enjoyed it. It was a lot of fun watching you take it all in...you got to see alligators, sharks, octupus, pinguins, sting rays, and whales all up close. When you are older, I think we will try to take you on the week-long summer camp at the aquarium.It seems like a really neat summer camp, and since it's the world's largest aquarium, it would be a highly educational experience ...<< MORE >>

May 25, 2008 2yrs 8 mos

Yummy...we ate at the Marietta Diner over Memorial Day weekend!  It was sooooo good. This is the big hunk of chocolate mousse cake we ate for dessert. Yummy!! ...<< MORE >>

May 21, 2008


Earlier last week, you got a fever so I didn't take you to daycare.  You stayed with me and accompanied me to my physical at the doctor's office.   I was describing to the doctor how I can't remember anything these days and I noticed your feet...I had put your shoes on the wrong feet!  Poor baby!  See what  type of parenting you have to put up with.  You were so cute when I took you to your pediatrician that I had to take a picture of you.  You just didn't really want to be there! 

Last night when it was bedtime, I asked if you wanted to sing a song.  You said that you wanted to sing "My song"....and then you started singing your song titled "My song".   It turns out that there is only ONE single word in "My Song"....that word is "ME".  So, for quite a while last night, I listened to you singing the word "me" over and over..."me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me"..."My Song" is such an appropriate title!

What other cute things are you up to these days?  Last night I was cooking dinner, but apparently not fast enough to accommodate the needs of this growing boy...you climbed up on the barstool and grabbed a banana from the counter.  You peeled the banana all by yourself, and ate the entire thing.  After you chowed down on the banana, you informed me that you really wanted to go ahead and eat your dinner.  Of course, dinner was not yet complete...the fish was still in the oven.

But since you acted as if you were starving, I went ahead and gave you your plate of broccoli, brown rice & pineapple, which was already prepared on your plate.  I knew, however, that you were not in fact starving because you only ate your pineapple, and barely touched the broccoli and brown rice.  You did eat the fish, but not all of it.  Had you actually been starving as you claimed, you would have made the borccoli and brown rice disappear as quickly as the pineapple.

Oh, I also made the mistake of telling you that we were waiting on the fish. 

Your daddy quickly pointed out that I had just made a mistake...you thought I was talking about the little Goldfish crackers.   I truly tried to explain to you the clarification between the Goldfish in the cabinet and the fish I intended to feed you that was cooking in the oven.  Any professional negotiating skills I have are just no match for negotiating with a 2 year old, so the Goldfish crackers went onto your dinner plate just as the "real" fish came out of the oven.  You managed to make Goldfish crackers part of the mealplan around here.

Oh the joys of raising a two year old. 

Then later right before bedtime, you asked for a bowl of cereal.  But that was after you swindled some peanut butter crackers out of me.

You're going to eat us out of the house at the age of two.  I realize you are a growing boy, but I'm certain you are not growing at warp speed...which is the rate at which you are consuming food!  At least we don't have a house full of junk food because you'd gobble it all up.


So, I've made you a dentist appointment.  Hopefully your teeth are ok, but I'm not so sure.  This weekend you ate a piece of chocolate and then stated that your tooth hurt.  We don't really do the best of job making sure you brush them well.  We try to "play dentist" when it's time to brush your teeth because that way we can really make sure your teeth get clean.  But  you are not always cooperative with giving up control of the toothbrush.  Again, real life negotiating skills are not effective with a two year old.  So, maybe a trip to the dentist will help improve our ability to refine our oral hygiene skills.

On Sunday afternoon after church, we took you to the driving range to hit some balls.  You did as well as your attention span would allow.  You were good for about a solid 10 minutes, and then it was apparent that you were done hitting balls.  So, we went inside the little golf clubhouse/store and played with the manager's dog.  That provided enough entertainment to hold your interest until your daddy finished hitting all of the balls in his bucket.  I took some pictures.   You are just adoreable.

You still refuse to say "Grand-ma".  We figured out that you acually do have the capability to say the word "grandma", but you choose to say "ga ga", perhaps out of defiance?  I was trying to coach you to say "Grand-ma", and you flat out told me "No, I say Ga Ga". 

And so it is. 

In due time..probably around age 4... natural consequences will occur for saying "Ga Ga" around your friends, if we haven't helped you change your vocabulary by then! We'll keep trying....and right now it's not such a bad thing because it's still highly cute.  You'll catch on soon enough I suppose.  In the meantime, it's quality entertainment trying to get you to say it the right way! 

Wow, I just cannot sleep...the best thing I can accomplish at 2 in the morning is writing to you!  It's probably a really good time to go ahead and cook those pork chops that are thawed in the fridge, but maybe I'll do that when I actually get up at 4 am. 

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May 20, 2008

Hello Lincoln. I just want to let you know you are not the only Lincoln Wilson out there. My son's name is Lincoln Wilson and he is 15 months old. We live in New Zealand and just loved looking at your website ...<< MORE >>

May 20, 2008 2 yrs 8 mos

Good morning my sweet baby boy!  You have started to really get into this whole potty training habit. You really enjoy being able to go potty by yourself, and you won't let us help you with any part of it. You've been using the big potty...you move your little step stool to the toilet & climb up all by yourself. I cringe because I think you're going to fall off...or IN...but you don't! 

Yesterday when I dropped you off at daycare, there were two kids screeming/crying. You didn't want to go into your classroom so you just stood ...<< MORE >>

May 8, 2008

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May 6, 2008 2yrs 8 mos

 

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May 4, 2008

I drank an entire pot of coffee earlier and apparently the caffeine is doing its job. You and your daddy are asleep, but my brain cannot shut off.

So, I want to list some money saving tips. By the way, your daddy's team won 2nd place in the golf tournament, so he won a round of putt putt golf at the little amusement park down the road. Last week he won 3rd place in a team weight-loss competition. He got a 6-month gym membership and $135 out of that. Maybe that's a money saving tip in itself: win contests. ...<< MORE >>

May 3, 2008

We spent 3 hours this afternoon at the library. We had a picnic at the ampitheater, walked around the pond, played on the slide, and then we cooled off inside the library. You got your very own library card. You don't even know how to read, but you have a library card. You have a million books at home, so you wanted to get videos.

You picked out videos and then waited in line with them. When it was your turn, you gave the card and videos to the lady at the desk. She swiped your card and gave everything back ...<< MORE >>

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April 30, 2008

There is a mysterious fever is going around your daycare, so last night I asked you how you feel. You said "I feel better, much better". And you said it with so much enthusiasm.

Last night was a big night for you...we got to go out to eat with your G'ma, then we went to the library (you did NOT want to leave, so we had to promise to bring you back on "Friday"), and then we went and got some chocolate-dipped cones, which are not on the food pyramid.

So, it was highly enjoyable, but we couldn't find ...<< MORE >>

April 28, 2008 2.5 yrs


We went camping this weekend with some friends and had a great time!  It was so much fun and you did really well.  You didn't run off or cry much.  You just really enjoyed being outside...you enjoyed sleeping outside, eating outside and just staying outside the entire day!

You stayed up way past your bedtime by the campfire.  You and  your daddy did a little bit of fishing...but I don't think you had any chance of catching a fish using the little rod with the yellow plastic fish attached to the end.  That's as close as it got for you, buddy.

I caught a turtle. 

We ate really fattening food...greasy bacon, fried eggs & lots of red meat.  I think they really need to create a camping food pyramid because we almost gave ourselves a heart attack eating all that saturated fat for the weekend.

It was just really relaxing and you said  want to go camping again.  It was nice to spend the entire weekend with you without any distractions.  We weren't sure how you'd react, even though you did just fine during the dry run spending the night in our tent in the back yard a few weeks ago.  I think you just were at peace with nature and felt right at home being outdoors.

Your cousin was born last week.  I was out of town, but your daddy sent me some pictures & she looked just like you in the pictures, but she looks less like you in person.  Yesterday was your other cousin's 3rd birthday and we went to Chuck E Cheese. 

I hate that place, and you are always scared of the dancing animal costumes.  But they have a good salad bar and your daddy seems to like a particular video game from the 80's they have there.  He's addicted and the only time he gets to play that game is when we're there.  But your cousins had a nice time and it was fun being with everyone.

When your "Ga Ga" left tonight, you were SCREAMING and crying huge crocadile tears to go home with her.  You started by telling her you wanted to go home with her, but then by the time she made it outside to her car, you were screaming "come back, ga ga, come back".  It was so sad!!  I felt so sorry for you because you wanted to go to her house so bad!

You've never done that before!  Goodnight sweetheart!

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April 20, 2008

You are such a bossy little boy...you aren't afraid to make your expectations known!  I wonder where you get that from?  But you are sweet, even though you are two!

Your daddy had a dream that he went back to Hawaii and your piggy bank was there.  He made your piggy bank when he was in high school. At the time, he didn't realize he was making it for you!   

Yesterday morning when you woke up, you asked your daddy if I went home to my house. I guess with me being out of town so much lately and ...<< MORE >>

April 10, 2008

Yesterday evening you and your daddy put up our tent in the backyard. You kept saying "my house, my tent", and you ordered me not to leave the tent. You wanted so badly to bring your car inside your tent...which you actually did against my advice. So, you had to go inside for a while because you didn't mind. You cannot stand being inside on a nice day.

Your daddy grilled pork chops, and we ate dinner outside. It was very enjoyable family time.
You didn't eat your green beans, but at least you did eat the vitamin I put ...<< MORE >>

April 8, 2008

You are such a 2 year old these days!   At times it's great, but then other times it's just terrible. The other night you tooted & blamed your G'ma. Your favorite word has really become "not". You say that you are not going to do a lot of things, and you really throw a fit if we make you do otherwise.

The other night you would not sit still at a restaurant. Oh, I was mad because you wouldn't behave. And your daddy made matters worse by being rude to me, so you and I got up and left. ...<< MORE >>

March 30, 2008 2.5 yrs

It's been a long time since I've had a chance to slow down and write to you. You're getting to be soooo big and you've developed a habit of saying you're NOT going to do things. We're trying to teach you to say sir and ma'am. We're inconsistently consistent, so who knows if you'll actually learn it.

Every morning you've been telling me that you're going to "Sissy's" house. You've got a good appetite and you eat almost anything that is placed before you. You love oatmeal flavored with apple pulp. I'm trying to teach you to eat according ...<< MORE >>

March 9, 2008 2.5 yrs

This morning I was cutting up a mango while cooking breakfast & all of the sudden, the mango slipped out of my hands and flew onto the top of the stove...it slid across the stovetop and came to a rest at the foot of the oatmeal. You saw the entire incident and thought it was hilarious, so you started giggling!

I started laughing at you, and it was a funny moment!

Friday you pulled a girl's hair at daycare....it was unprovoked, so I'm worried about you. Last week you bit your cousin for no reason at all (other than ...<< MORE >>

March 6, 2008

You and I had a very enjoyable evening together while your daddy was at the range. We went out to eat at our favorite restaurant & you behaved very well. You're behavior is easy to redirect these days. But, you still have issue with telling me "no" and telling me to "go away", and we're working on that. It's inherent to the  terrible twos, but at least you are receptive to corrective action.

There is hope...maybe that behavior will magically disappear when you are 3...maybe!

You started to develop a nasty habit of wiping your mouth with your arm!  ...<< MORE >>

March 6, 2008: Friday

I just asked "Lincoln, do you know what tomorrow is?", and you replied with an affirmative "uh-huh....Frifray".
That's close enough to call you a genius in my eyes! ...<< MORE >>

March 5, 2008

This morning was "mismatch day" at daycare & all the kids were supposed to wear mismatched clothes. But you refused to wear anything that didn't match except for your socks!

I thought it would be fun for you to dress all wrong, but it seems you have your mother's serious streak. You're a no-nonsense, no fluff kind of kid....all business!!

And, you like salad. You're my kind of kid.

Gotta go throw you in the tub...not literally, of course...but you do need to get clean!
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March 4, 2008

You are so funny because you've started repeating everything we say. "I have a four gig"....that's what we heard you say last night after I was telling your daddy how excited I am about the very nice gift (a 4 GB jump drive) he bought me.  

You're such a sweet little boy and I'm just so happy to be your mother!  It is the best experience I've ever had...there's just nothing to compare it to. I just really want you to grow up knowing you are loved and I want you to strive to be the best you possibly ...<< MORE >>

February 27, 2008

You and I were reading  a little bit ago and you announced you wanted to watch Mickey Mouse.

So, I told you: "The recommended time that parents are supposed to read to their child is 15 minutes per day. We've only been reading for 5 minutes, which is one third of the time we're supposed to read."  

You responded: "Okay, one more."

I had to laugh because I really didn't expect you to understand what I had said to you, much less come up with such an appropriate response!




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February 25, 2008: 29 months

Your G'ma is giving you a bath right now (yea ga ga), so I'm taking this minute to write to you. Yesterday you had on your daddy's shoes & I commented to you about how you grew up so quickly. I guess you thought I said "threw up" because you started making gagging noises laughing!!  It was funny, but I had to explain the difference between "grew up" and "threw up".

It make me have flashbacks to when you puked repeatedly in January. You contaminated both of your parents..I mean, we were covered in your puke. But neither one ...<< MORE >>

February 23, 2008

Your G'ma watched you last night while your parents went out on a hot date!  We went to eat, then stopped by the bookstore and we actually got to see the entire movie...last night we didn't have to get up and leave due to a certain little talkative boy!  It was just a good evening and the movie wasn't all that bad. A couple we know ended up sitting directly in front of us, so it was nice bumping into them also.

Your G'ma said that you said you were going to call Miss Jane. You always want to ...<< MORE >>

February 22, 2008

Today you came home with some really cool artwork. Of course, to other people it's just a bunch of scribbles, but your parents are highly proud of those scribbles!  You do artwork each day...your artwork today was of the Red Cross emblem. I was so excited when I saw it because I am a Red Cross Disaster Services instructor...you came with me during one class I taught while I was about 8 months pregnant with you! 


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February 21, 2008

You received a really nice note on your website lincolnwilson.com from another person with your same name!  The note says:

Hey Lincoln and family - you have a great name. In 42 years I have been the only one. It is good to know I am not alone!  Good luck little guy!

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February 18, 2008

You got a "report card" today....according to your report card:

You Consistently...

  • Clap hands to music
  • dance to music
  • paint with large brush
  • tear paper
  • scribble on paper
  • increase eye-hand coordination (i.e. puzzles)
  • stack blocks
  • roll, pound and squeeze play dough
  • attempt to jump
  • attempt to throw a ball
  • catch a rolled ball
  • help to turn the pages of a book
  • are reponsive to adults
  • show pride in accomplishments
  • imitate another person's actions
  • incorporate props into dramatic play
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February 17, 2008

You can count to 13 now all by yourself!  That's very exciting!!  You've started making up songs all by yourself also...you made a song about your "ga ga" coming over. You also answer all of Mickey Mouse's questions correctly...for example: "Should we add more or take some away to get the right amount of plates for all of Goofy's friends?"....you say the right answer "take away". That's pretty amazing.

I'm so excited because I got to buy a juicer from winning a bet with your daddy. I though I'd get creative making juice with it. But what I've discovered is ...<< MORE >>

February 13, 2008

I just reveiwed your kindergarten curriculum. You are definitely on track to have the knowledge necessary to get through your first year of school. One of the main skills you'll be introduced to is the concept if reading maps...very basic stuff. But my goal is to have you know all the states by your 3rd birthday. We'll work on the United States 1st before we move onto the entire world.

Another concept you'll need to know in kindergarten is comparing and contrasting items. Actually, you'll do fine in that area also because you've already mastered the skill of ...<< MORE >>

February 12, 2008

Last night we went to "Aunt Crystie's" house & you fed her dogs & played with her cats. You were so fascinated because you really haven't ever had a chance to really see & feel a real live tail before!  ...<< MORE >>

February 8, 2008

You had an accident today while you were out on the playground so you came home in a new set of clothes.  You didn't want to stop playing, so it pottying in your pants probably seemed like more fun.

You are good little gopher. You are very good at fetching things.


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February 7, 2008

You're getting very good at maneuvering on the computer. You play Mickey Mouse games very well. You're good at pointing and clicking!!  I wonder how much you'll know about computers when you're 5. Your daddy was first introduced to computers in the 6th grade....an Apple IIC....old school. The first computer I had was limited to writing code, using a cassette tape. Weird.

Technology is your friend.

You'll be so much smarter than your parents. You and your daddy are laying in the middle of the living room floor & your daddy is breathing on you, asking if his ...<< MORE >>

February 5, 2008

Your G'ma has redeemed herself!  She even gave you a bath tonight!  ah....a break

You were in a particularly good mood today. You gave me a big hug and kiss this morning saying good-bye. It was sweet...just like you. ...<< MORE >>

February 4, 2008

I had to bribe you with bubbles to get into the tub for a bath tonight. Then, you didn't even play with your bubbles until you sat there so long they dissappeared. By that time, your wrinkles indicated that it was time to get out, so you didn't get to play with any bubbles.

You are so cute when you count...you counted to 10 again tonight. You say 4 and 5 as plural... you say "fours" "fives". Not sure why!  You can point the mouse on the computer really well now & you even "click". It's funny to watch. ...<< MORE >>

Feb 4, 2008 from email

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February 3, 2008

You counted to 10 all by yourself!!  You did it perfectly. It's the first time you've ever counted from 1-10 by yourself without any help. We've been working on that skill for 29 months straight! 

You were just on the Little Einstein website playing a game...you scored 1032 points. That's impressive!  You've discovered how to maneuver the mouse on the screen & you push the left mouse button to select.

We're having some problems with Florida...we might need to put that state away for a little while. Somewhere along the way, you learned about weapons...guns to be exact. So, now Florida has become your pretend gun. You ...<< MORE >>

February 1/2, 2008

Lincoln, this is daddy...

It's been a long night, hence the title. I was configuring an email account for your mommy so she could blog while on the road and I somehow hosed up your blog for almost 4 hours!  Your sub domain kept returning a 404 page (I'm assuming that all this stuff is second nature to you) and I finally had to call customer support. Turns out that creating the email address blog@lincolnwilson.com during a server migration by quick blogcast is NOT a good thing.

I tried to edit the A-record but that didn't do it....I ...<< MORE >>

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February 1, 2008

Last night you picked up Pooh Bear & Rudolf and they gave each other a kiss. It was so sweet, but I was wondering what prompted you to do that. You were probably trying to imitate your parents...I'm relieved to know Rudolf wasn't nagging Pooh Bear or telling Pooh Bear to take out the trash!!!  hee hee!!  

It's nice to know that Pooh Bear and Rudolf love each other very much!! 

I was out of town for a few days & missed you very much. I didn't have internet access where I was, and so I tried writing to you from ...<< MORE >>

January 26, 2008

Lincoln....caught in action!

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January 26, 2008

  We went to an airport event today in search of family friendly entertainment (i.e. parachuting) and family friendly  food (i.e. free). Much to our disappointment, the timing of our visit didn't coincide with the entertainment schedule. Everybody else in town was in the free food line, and we aren't patient enough to wait our turn, so we decided to go in search of food elsewhere. On our way out, we made a pit stop into a different terminal, which had a nice view of the flight line.                                                 

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January 24, 2008

Your daddy turned down the correct street today on the way home & you seemed to approve of his route...unlike yesterday when his driving choices caused you to have a prolonged meltdown. 

Lincoln, we've discovered that you have a very serious personality disorder.

The official name for your diagnosis is "The Terrible Twos". It's so severe that your CAFAS score would qualify you for some extremely intensive mental health treatment to address the Terrible Twos disorder!!  I'm not entirely convinced that you can grow up to live with dignity and respect as an adult after behaving like you do at times!!    

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January 23, 2008

You tried to put daddy in time-out earlier because you were mad. When he picked  you up today, you had a m-e-l-t-d-o-w-n!!  He knew there was going to be trouble when he didn't turn on the road you wanted him to turn on. He had to drive around the neighborhood trying to get you back to a more peaceful state of mind, but no luck.

You screamed for a looooong time. I missed out on all the fun because by the time I got home, you were all cried out...you were smiling, actually. But he did call and let ...<< MORE >>

January 22, 2008

Mississippi is still missing...we've looked in every square foot of our house for that state. Somehow, Mississppi has eluded us.

Last night you set the table for dinner. Apparently, you forgot where I sit because my plate ended up on the other side of the table. But the napkins were correctly positioned, so you get a gold star for that alone!!

Yesterday we started timing you putting together your United States puzzle...but after 9 minutes & 53 seconds, there was a problem with the border that needed your immediate attention...a piece of the border came loose.
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January 20, 2008

Except for Mississippi (which is still missing in action), you can put together your map of the entire United States all by yourself. Today you wouldn't let me even WATCH while you were putting the puzzle together. You said "no, don't watch" when I tried to check your progress!

Gotta run...time to play "cars" with you...although I don't think you like the way I do it...I play cars according to the real life driver's handbook, but you enjoy running me off the pretend road. I'm going to have you pretend arrested for doing that!! ...<< MORE >>

January 20, 2008

We lost Mississippi.

The entire state is probably underneath a cushion or perhaps even in the laundry basket.

You ate 4 pancakes for breakfast plus half a pear. You ate your dad's pancakes...that's a bit alarming. You usually don't eat that much. We'll monitor to see if it's a trend or if you were just extra hungry this morning.



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January 19, 2008

In the middle of the night you were awake for a while saying your "mouth hurts". You have a very large tooth coming in & it is causing you some misery. So, three Orajel applications and twelve Barney songs later, you were able to go back to sleep. I know it hurts worse at night if you wake up because there is no other activity to focus on except feeling the pain!  At least if it hurts during the daytime, your attention can focus on other activities which make the pain seem less intensive.

Poor baby!

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January 18, 2008

You love pickles!  We bought the sandwich slices & you've been gobbling them up. You just put Louisiana on the map & you instructed your daddy to put Oklahoma above Texas.

Your Grandma is visiting tonight & she says  that you are very detailed. She's right. Everything really does have to be perfectly aligned in your life. You told her where Hawaii is on the map & she commented that you say it just like a local. You just put Tennessee, Ohio & Washington state in their correct places on the map. Your Grandma is so amazed that you know where the ...<< MORE >>

January 18, 2008

Your dad & I are up early...he woke up having a full conversation with me & now we're wide awake trying to solve all the world's problems at 4:00 am. I'm up for about half of the calendar year at 4:00 am. This is unusual for him, so I've enjoyed the company!  Oh goodness, he just had a really genius idea...even I am impressed by it!! hee hee!!

I forgot to mention...
 The other day your daddy was trying to connect some wires with the dvd so he could record a news cast. You were highly interested in what ...<< MORE >>

January 17, 2008

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January 16, 2008

You set the table tonight...our plates were all creatively arranged, but you put everything pretty much where it was supposed to be. We've been working with you on telling us what you want instead of what we want to hear. You usually say "I want to hold you"...which really means "I want you pick me up  so I can see what you are doing because I'm very nosy". So tonight for the first time, you said "I want to hold you. I want to see". We're half way there!

When you count, you skip 1 & say "2,5,6". It's ...<< MORE >>

January 14, 2008

Today you started going to a new daycare. I was worried about you because it takes you 2 hours to warm up to a new situation. But you did fine. You made some new friends & you told your teacher that you deeded to go to the bathroom 2 times. They took you on the hour the rest of the time. We'll get you out of pull ups and into big boy underwear consistently soon.

You were very excited about going to your new daycare. When your daddy picked you up, he said you were dancing around with all ...<< MORE >>

January 12, 2008

Your dad and I were just reminiscing about our first date. We went to the shooting range. He was impressed with my skills shooting a Kimber .45, which earned a subsequent date. I still have my target. It was a great first date!!  It's still a great date, but we don't get to do it much anymore.

We were also just talking about how we both went to the Pro Bowl before we met. You'll go one day before too much time passes. Your family is in Hawaii...maybe you can run the Honolulu Marathon also. Your daddy did it. I never will...but I'll sure support you doing it!! ...<< MORE >>

January 11, 2008

I'm requesting a recall of the Chinese birth chart...it's defective!!

I just read where I wrote January 3, 2005 that the Chinese birth chart predicted you were going to be a boy....it also predicted your cousin (she was born a few months before you) was going to be a boy.

Is it 50% defective, or 50% right?

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January 11, 2008

Poor baby!  You’ve had a stomach virus. You’re on the tail end of it with diarrhea and except for one tragically explosive episode, you’re getting back to yourself. The doctor said you’re not dehydrated. This all started the night before last.

Oh, that was a lovely night.

You puked 17 times, went through 8 shirts, 4 pairs of pants, 1 bottle of Pedialite, and 2 loads of towels. There was a 2 hour stretch when you didn’t throw up. I fell asleep during that time and awoke to a gagging sound. You were sitting there throwing ...<< MORE >>

January 4, 2008

It's official: you are well.
   I know this because you have constant energy again and your fever hasn't returned. Very good!  You got sick Sunday night. Your daddy took you to the doctor on Monday and you developed the "never ending fever" that same afternoon.

   So, this morning you woke up in a baaaaaad mood. Apparently you didn't realize it was Friday. You'll learn soon enough that Friday makes everything okay. Fridays bring an end to the misery...of course it's temporary, but we take what relief we can get from the work week!

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December 29, 2007

Yesterday your daddy took you with him to eat lunch with people he works with. So, last night I asked you if you went to work with daddy & you replied "uh huh". Then I asked what you and daddy did at his work, and you paused for a long time searching for the answer, with your eyes squinting. Finally, your eyes lit up and you got a big smile on your face because you had an answer: "eat eat". For some reason, you can't just say eat once...you always have to say it twice.

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December 27, 2007

This morning you woke up at 4:45 am...bright eyed and bushy tailed. You did fine for 1/2 a mile...that was all you let me do on the treadmill. After that long, you weren't intersted in sitting there any longer.

So,  we played ring a round the rosie and you were so cute. I was singing a silly song rhyming it with your name..."Linc Dink Stink Stink"...then you did the same rhyming your song with "Mommy". We both got a huge laugh out of it. You're very creative.

You have train tracks that your daddy put together for you. ...<< MORE >>

December 26, 2007

Christmas was so much fun with you!  Santa brought you a truck, which you rode outside in the front yard until the battery died. At that point, you hopped out and popped the hood to investigate the problem. Very smart of you!  At one point, some little girls were walking by with their new presents (dolls and strollers). You almost wrecked looking at them. You were driving forward but looking backward at the girls, not paying attention to where you were going.The most fun was watching your daddy try to get you to steer with proficiency. ha!  Let's just say that I'm glad we don't ...<< MORE >>

October 27, 2007

You call everything "juice". The other day, you asked for "chocolate juice". You like carrots, guacemole, bananas, mangos, corn, spaghetti. You can pour your own cup of milk as long as the jug isn't full. You pour very slowly and with almost no spillage. And you are sticking things up your nose now. ...<< MORE >>

October 27, 2007

I recall many Christmas seasons when I was annoyed about having to hear so much Christmas music. ...Especially Christmas Even and Day when there was no "real" music on the radio. Anyway, I never really got much enjoyment from Christmas songs. But my experience now is opposite! 

A couple months ago I baked cookies and we listened to Christmas music...we danced and laughed as a family together!! 

No matter how old you are, I want you to be able to hear a Christmas song and think about all the good times your family has had. I'm trying ...<< MORE >>

October 26, 2007

Your dad and I were just discussing how smart you are. You have 3 jigsaw puzzles...all the pieces are all mixed up together, but you can sort the pieces to match with the appropriate puzzle. Just by looking at each piece!

You've got such a great sense of humor. I love that about you. I had a realization today...Christmas music makes me think of you and your daddy. It makes me feel closer to both of you...I guess that's why I like it so much! ...<< MORE >>

October 24, 2007 2 years

You are regularly going potty by yourself and to top it off, you wipe the seat when you are finished.

Tonight we had 3 telemarketers call...we let you answer!  You had an entire conversation with one lady. She was nice to you and she even told you bye bye!  You answer the phone by pushing the speaker phone button. ...<< MORE >>

October 23, 2007

You went potty all day today, and you can put your pull-ups on and off all by yourself. It's not a fast or pretty process, but it's being done.

You're so independent. I like that about you. You are smart. Each morning you help me put on my shoes, you turn off the tv, pick up your toys. ...<< MORE >>

October 20, 2007

You listen to classical music daily...Mozart, Vivaldi and Beethoven. You enjoy it. Sometimes you hum and bounce your head left and right. But we listen to the same songs daily.

Your dad just told me that you two were counting yesterday to 9. But you didn't know 10. ...<< MORE >>

October 18, 2007 2 years

You've been pottying at daycare every day.

You're so cute because when your g'ma says she is going to "get your tummy", you lift your shirt, then she attacks your stomach and it's just too cute.

Your daddy's friend came over this evening, and an odd thing happened. You went up to him after he had been here for only 15 minutes, and you raised your arms indicating you wanted him to hold you. And he did...you didn't even cry!  Never in your life have you ever done that to anyone other than me, your daddy and ...<< MORE >>

October 14, 2007

Did I mention you love salad?  Yesterday we ate Greek food...you ate a salad and really liked it. So, it's not just ranch dressing you like because this was a greek salad.

You were too scared to jump on the inflatable jumpy thing. But you did enjoy watching everyone else!  I enjoy watching you trying to figure everyone out! ...<< MORE >>

October 12, 2007

You were in such a good mood last night because your daddy was home. usually I ask you if you want to sing a song before bed and then I ask you to pick the song you want to sing. Your usual response is a song I've never heard of other than when you sing it- "Big Dog" - At least, that's what it sounds like.

Then I say, "okay, sing" and you start singing "Big Dog, Big Dog, Big Dog". But last night we went through the same routine and your song was "Daddy". So, you sang: ...<< MORE >>

October 11, 2007

Your g'ma gave me a birthday card that said "It's your birthday, you deserve a break". I read it as I was in the middle of cooking dinner for her!!


That's funny!!

You can do jigsaw puzzles really well and you talk to your puzzles. Your dad is home and he's sleeping. ...<< MORE >>

October 9, 2007

You had your two year shots today and a flu shot. You're no longer allergic to eggs. When I was 8, I had an allergic reaction to eggs (at Easter!).

So, we went to Chick-Fil-A after the shots and you climbed on the playground. I literally had to drag you out kicking and screaming. You were having too much fun. You didn't enjoy your shots at all. Usually you just grimace, but today you screamed "NO".

You like to eat Cheerios...you could live off those things. You eat so well. Your daddy is on some boat ...<< MORE >>

October 8, 2007

Columbus Day

I have the day off!  You slept almost 16 hours yesterday...thru this morning. You're not sick, you were just tired!  You really enjoy counting, but you don't always count in order. You always skip number "one". I'm cleaning right now....well technically, I guess I'm taking a break now!

We were at dinner eating earlier but you had to stop and smell your food. Not sure why, or if it's going to be a trend. But it's worthing of noting here.

We were just outside planting tulips and dandelines. No wait, not those...those are weeds. Let ...<< MORE >>

October 7, 2007

I was going to go with your daddy on a trip out of town today for a nice little holiday but it seems like we all have pink eye so I have to stay here!

You put birthday hats on us every day. It's adorable. They're left over from your 2nd birthday party. ...<< MORE >>

October 6, 2007 2 years

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September 29, 2007

Your g'ma Moki kept you for 3 days in a row. It was nice to have her love on you while you were sick as opposed to taking you to daycare (which the doctor said you could attend). But she enjoys it, so it was nice.

But the result is that you are more demanding and you are talking less because she did whatever you wanted with you grunting or pointing to indicate what you want instead of talking. So now you're trying to pull that with us and we just can't stand it. Your g'ma lets you do ...<< MORE >>

September 28, 2007 2 years

You LOVE salad....lettuce especially. YOu do not like bandaids - you got a bandaid for your finger when you got a lead test and you were griping about it. When you gripe, it resembles an old man grumbling. No whining, not crying. Grumbling is the best way to describe it.

You say "wait a minute, I'll be right back"..it's adorable.

You love to read at night. You love to tell your g'ma to "go home". You hate it when I do your breathing treatment but you love pretending to do it all by yourself. Your daddy is home ...<< MORE >>

September 25, 2007

You had your 2 year check up today. You have pneumonia in your right lung. Your g'ma is staying iwth you for Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. You'll be okay but you have to have breathing treatments. Your dad is in Atlanta for training this week. ...<< MORE >>

September 23, 2007 2 years

Yesterday was productive but you developed a fever - 102 - probably because you're teething. You are acting fine. ...<< MORE >>

September 22, 2007

Time flies. Your birthday was so much fun and so long!  You are funny because when you are mad at us, you say, "go away mommy" or "go away daddy". When you're mad at your Gma, you say "Go home, gaga". It's so cute.

You have 2 teeth coming in. No wonder you've been asking for ice lately.

The other night your dad was trying to give you a lesson on how to dip your chicken nugget and eat one bite at a time (as opposed to your preferred method of shoving the entire nugget into your ...<< MORE >>

September 15, 2007

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
You are TWO!  Today is your special day. It's like waking up on Christmas morning. I was so excited when I opened my eyes. We've been preparing for a month now. We didn't have a party for you last year, so we have to make up for it this year.

You are opinionated and strong. Your daddy is taking you to have your hair cut.

You're getting a website for your birthday. We're actually thinking of its REAL value down the road - down your political or otherwise professional path. When you're running for ...<< MORE >>

September 14, 2007

Tomorrow my sweet baby boy turns TWO. We're having a party for you and I hope you really enjoy it because you won't get another one like this for a while.

Yesterday it was raining.You were cute because you were singing "rain rain go away".

I unloaded on your dad and he got a tad bit of a nasty tone with me. Nothing major, but it was evident we weren't in harmony. He was getting ready to walk out the door and you ran up to him...you started fighting with his leg with a shoe you ...<< MORE >>

September 9, 2007

You're just adorable. Thsi morning you set the table for breakfast. You usually do, so you're skilled at it. Yo uput everyone's silverware and napkins into the correct spot. You pray so sweetly and you repeat all the words of the prayer.

This morning you said "Poo Poo, have to".

But you did nothing on the toilet. 

We just ate brownies - the BEST brownies because your dad made them. We haven't had any sweets like that for 2 weeks. You really like football. On your own. We try to get you into golf, but you ...<< MORE >>

September 3, 2007

Last night we were playing football in your room. You told us to come in there with you. It was lots of fun. We were trying to teach you how to throw the ball but you were very interested in writing on your chalk board.   Right now you are looking at a scar on my knee. You're trying to tell me something. I'm not sure what you're saying. Oh wait, now you're looking for your football.

I just taught you how to hang your glasses from your shirt. We bought you a construction shirt to wear on your birthday. ...<< MORE >>

September 1, 2007

I can't believe it's September. You're almost 2. Of course, you've thought you were two for 3 months now. No need in confusing you with 1. We skipped right over it to two. I was thinking of all the uses of your website. It will come in handy in school when you want to run for school council. 

Oh my gosh you are a terrible two year old. You are demanding and whiny. Picky too. But we'll get through it just fine. You are eating breakfast - yogurt, cheerios and a plum with chocolate milk.

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Terrible 2's......

Lincoln, 10 minutes after his 30 minute bath....

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Preparations for Lincoln's Birthday party

Lincoln is turning two and we're scrambling to prepare for his party;  part of that preparation involved creating this blog and publishing www.lincolnwilson.com to the web. Please feel free to subscribe to Lincoln's blog or just check back here every now and then.
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August 23, 2007

You just stole your daddy's cereal.

This morning you climbed off the bed by yourself. I didn't realize you did it until it was over. You always have a napkin when you eat and you automatically wipe your face when you feel it needs to be wiped. When you're aware of food on your face, you wipe it. Last night we went out to eat. You cleaned the table-wiped it down with baby wipes.

Organization seems to come naturally to you. ...<< MORE >>

August 20, 2007

You have a thick southern accent.

Here's how you enunciate your words:

More= "Mowa"
Here = "He ya"
Horse = "He yas"
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August 18, 2007

I'm so excited for you because your friend is coming to play with you for the entire day. Let's see, what's the latest with you:

You gave your Gma step by step instructions about how to open the trash can lid with your foot. You began the lesson with "watch". It was amazing to see you show her and then you let her do it after each step by step demonstration.

It stormed violently yesterday and I was caught up in it on my way home. Your dad said that you were playing just fine but when a ...<< MORE >>

August 15, 2007

In 1 month, you'll be two. Whenyou were born, I couldn't see you for 2 days. The thought of you in the NICU w/out your family just killed me.  I was begging for someone to go stay with you. Finally, your Gma stood up and said "I'll do it".  And I was just so appreciative. She came to see you almost every morning before work after that day. That moment when she overcame her fear of the tubes and stepped up to the plate was the start of a great bond between you two.

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August 13, 2007

You were playing with a coffee mug -to go- when the bottom popped off. You kept saying "fix it up". Then you'd fix it. Then you'd pull it of again and say "broke"....then you'd say "fix it up" again.

So I started encouraging you to say "repair" instead of fix it!!

But your dad says it's okay for you to say "fix" because you're from the South. I can't stand it! ...<< MORE >>

August 12, 2007

You had the croup. I didn't realize it's viral.

You turn your chips upside down when you eat them. You put them into your mouth upside down and all the dip drops off. You started saying "I did it". When you want us to notice something you've done, that's what you say. You like guacamole. You love ice cream. You love applesauce, and carrots. You love spaghetti. You like philly cheese steak. You're eating it right now and you just said "yum". Sometimes you have a good appetite, but your dad ruins it with junk!

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July 31, 2007

Last night I realized you are just smarter than I ever knew possible. About 2 months ago I bought you an alphabet puzzle. You already have one, but the letters are pictures. You conquered those so well that AI thought you'd end up not knowing the alphabet consists of actual letters. Well, it turns out you do know the alphabet. At least, you can put all the letters in the puzzle. You can look at the shape and match it with the appropriate spot.

Your pictures are supposed to arrive tomorrow. ...<< MORE >>

July 27, 2007

I can't believe you're almost 2. You are the smartest 2 year old I know. You reason and really think about things. But you still can't hold up 2 fingers on the same hand!!  Not sure why. However, you do now how to count and you know if you have a certain quantity up to 4. I'm so excited about Christmas being here soon. It's a lot of fun with you around.

You are hard headed and going through the terrible twos. You're too independant and know what you want. That's the problem. That's my fault. I try to ...<< MORE >>

July 15, 2007

22 months!!

Yesterday we had your pictures made - your 2 year pictures. We always have them done a little early. You were such a ham with the camera. You are beautiful.
And smart - you were putting together blocks yesterday and I noticd how you put a lot of thought into it. Of course you always do, but you've started doing blocks according to size. You put all the same size blocks together. Then you branched out into grouping them according to color. So yesterday I saw your blocks with different colors. You had yellow and green. ...<< MORE >>

July 14, 2007

Today you get your pictures made. ...<< MORE >>

July 11, 2007

You are speaking in sentences regularly. You want to be just like your daddy. If he has his shirt off, you want yours off. If his is on, you want yours on. Oh and shoes....my goodness you have a thing for shoes.

You hate when I take your shoes off because you know there's no chance of you going outside with shoes off. You love to be outside and boy do the mosquitos love to eat you up. You love to play ring around the rosie. You're still holding food in your mouth. I"m not sure why or how ...<< MORE >>

July 8, 2007

Your daddy was trying to teach you how to draw triangles. You drew half of one a few times.

You problem solve. If something doesn't fit one way, you turn it around the other way.   ...<< MORE >>

July 7, 2007

You can draw circles!  You also stack your big blocks according to color. We bought you a t-ball and you hit it well. You hold food inyour mouth for hours without swallowing it. We figured out that you will swallow if we stop telling you to swallow.

When your G'ma comes to visit, sometimes she uses the restroom. While she's in there, you lay down in the hallway and stick your arms under the door. Today you started walking backwards....and running backwards. You know that 8 comes after 7 because you kept prompting me while we were counting to ...<< MORE >>

July 3, 2007

Last night you were playing in your favorite kitchen drawer. You got all all the bowls and cutting boards...and you set the table with them. Then you cam eand got me and your daddy to tell us it was time to eat. So, we sat down to pray and we pretended to eat your dinner.

Later, you said "Daddy loves mommy, mommy loves daddy" and then you pulled our heads together to kiss. You're a sweet boy!  You seem to be confident that your parents love each other!  ...<< MORE >>

June 29, 2007

Oh goodness!!  We went to Outback Steakhouse to eat dinner. In all of our 7 years of togetherness, your dad and I haven't eaten at Outback. Well, we went and expected to have a great time.  Near our table were ceiling tiles buldging down and the vent next to them was leaking a steady stream of water. I was eyeballing an exit strategy but before we could really do anything, a huge duct fell from the ceiling full of murky brown water. The duct was aimed directly at our table. We ended up drenched. ...<< MORE >>

June 23, 2007

We were watching the Anatomy of the F/A-18. You were walking around with your arms extended behind your back pretending to be a jet. How aerodynamic of you!  You were very excited about watching that show. So are your parents - we love the F/A-18. It's the entire reason you exist. Without it, you wouldn't be here because that's what brought your parents together-literally.

You ignored your daddy at first when he got back from his trip. The 1st time you saw him pull up into the driveway, your jaw dropped and you covered your mouth. You were ...<< MORE >>

June 22, 2007

Last night you ended up with two sippy cups. When it was time to go to bed, you gathered your sippy cups and brought them with you into the bedroom. Then you sat them down giggling and said "two"...you held up your two little index finger because that's how you've figured out how to show 2 on your hands. You are 22 months and so smart.

Yesterday you were shooing off a lizard. He lives outside and we see him every time we play outside.

Last night you were also talking to your daddy on the phone and ...<< MORE >>

June 21, 2007

Yesterday you picked up all your toys and put them away to the point that the living room was just about spotless. You sang the whole time.

It looked as if an adult had cleaned it. Everything was in it's spot. I paid you $5.00 . You haven't slept well since your dad has been gone. Yesterday at daycare they said you sat in a chair for 1/2 an hour like a zombie. Just in a zone. I think you're sad and you miss your daddy. His training is almost over and he'll be back tomorrow.

You are ...<< MORE >>

June 17, 2007

You are doing well with your pacifier withdrawls. Your speech has improved significantly. You're talking much more. Your stomach muscles are developing more. You are able to hold your big belly in for long periods of time. It still pokes out most of the time, but increasingly you have more control over holding it in.

You love ketchup. You love chocolate milk.

You and your dad are asleep. Yesterday during dinner, we forgot to bless the food. In the middle of everything, you stopped, put your hands together, and started praying. So we all ended up blessing the ...<< MORE >>

June 16, 2007

Tomorrow is father's day. Your dad seems so excited about spending time with you. I just had a sneezing fit & each time I sneezed, you said "bless you".

You had the hiccups and you covered your mouth each time you hiccupped. Very polite. ...<< MORE >>

June 14, 2007

We devised a plan to break your paci habit and it worked beautifully. I'm so excited about it. It was a two step method: #1 cut slits into the end of all the pacifiers;  #2 you threw them away. Beautiful.

You are so smart. You build  a work of art with your big blocks. You truly built an architectural structure. All the blocks were evenly proportioned and it was symmetrical.

Maybe it doesn't take much to impress me, but  I think you're smart!!  I think you have an eye for architecture!  Ha!  Yesterday your dad came up with a ...<< MORE >>

June 12, 2007

Yesterday you threw away your pacifier. I cut holes in it so it was broken. So, you threw it in the trash. Actually, all of them went into the trash. Last night was awful for you - for us - because you cried a lot. we comforted you. I rocked you back to sleep. It's like you're going through withdrawls. ...<< MORE >>

June 10, 2007

We just returned from our trip to Savannah. It was a lot of fun & we enjoyed walking everywhere. ...<< MORE >>

June 2, 2007

You get your feelings hurt so easily. ...<< MORE >>

May 31, 2007

Yesterday when your dad was picking you up, you pointed to the wall. It was the wall with artwork and guess what?  He found your artwork from yesterday. We hung it up on the fridge. It's truly the most beautiful scribbling I've ever seen. It warms my heart to look at it. ...<< MORE >>

May 29, 2007

You're so fun. Your favorite show is "How Clean is your House". You make the funniest faces watching it. ...<< MORE >>

Memorial Day

We went to Charleston for Memorial Day. It was wonderful. ...<< MORE >>

May 24, 2007

You love keys. You also love your new, organized closet. You love making a bed out of anything (paper, laundry, whatever) and laying down on it. You slept without your pacifier last night. But you woke up in the middle of the night cryng for it. ...<< MORE >>

May 18, 2007

This week flew by. I went out of town for 2 days. Your dad said while I was gone one morning, he took a shower & when he got out, you were dressed in my shirt. You had my shoes on and a purse over your shoulder saying "Go". "Go" is your favorite word.

...<< MORE >>

May 12, 2007



You brought home a mothers day card yesterday and a little baby plant. You walked up with the card in your hand. You bring me lots of joy. ...<< MORE >>

May 6, 2007

I'm trying to teach you the proper way to drink from a water bottle. You always stick your tongue out and it messes up the entire process. It's time to get your pictures made again. I was trying to wait but I can't. ...<< MORE >>

May 3, 2007

At daycare you were playing with a pink stroller carrying a doll. When I picked you up, you kicked the stroller away from you. This morning you put your shoes on all by yourself and stood at the door ready to go. Your shoes were on the correct feet. You are only 19 months!!

So smart ...<< MORE >>

May 2, 2007

We all had the virus you brought home. You were so cute because one day your Gma watched you. I gave her specific instructions that you could only have 1 vanilla wafer. She was trying to explain that to you, and immediately after it came out of her mouth, you held up your fngers and the same time and said "two". I'm not sure how you decided to display it like that.

...<< MORE >>

April 28, 2007

Virus!  You picked up a virus at daycare and you've been puking. Yesterday morning in between puking, you laid there moaning "siiiiiiiick....siiiiiiiick.....siiiiiiiiiick...."  It was so sweet and so pathetic at the same time.
Lovely.

You're very poopy. I've been trying to sanitize this polace, but it's really a big chore!  I've scrubbed and scrubbed and bleached and bleached!  Your dad and I will surely get it. I just hope it's not today or tomorrow.

Some history trivia:

You're loving on your daddy right now. Earlier you were laughing because you grabbed both of us and pushed our ...<< MORE >>

April 23, 2007

You went to the bank with me this morning - your first trip to the bank. We deposited your piggy money. ...<< MORE >>

April 22, 2007

Yesterday we had a garage sale. Your Gma brought some stuff to sell & said you could keep all the profits from her stuf. So, you made $35.00 & we put it into your piggy bank. We will put it into your savings account tomorrow. This is your retirement fund. You're too young to have an IRA or Roth. Very sad. But I guess you are supposed to start saving for retirement after you become a tax payer. Oh well.

You've said some new words:
Go, micro(wave but you can't get "wave" right yet), tree, I love you, truck, ...<< MORE >>

April 17, 2007

You know your left from your right. Last night you consistently showed me your left arm, leg & your right arem/leg while taking a bath. I woulod ask for your left arm & you gave it to me to wash.

You showed me your right & left ear & eye also.

You're like a sponge. ...<< MORE >>

April 14, 2007

On our trip you pooped on your dad while sitting on his shoulders. Last night we were watching the video of you leading up to the "discovery" & we were trying to look for clues that would have told us you were working on a load.

Many clues- you patted your diaper, you looked around worried...as if you were looking for a bathroom. Well, at least that's what the video shows! 

I plan to put you to work by age 5. Starting with a lemonade stand. You can learn all the basic concepts of business form having ...<< MORE >>

April 13, 2007

Well, aren't you organized. This morning I put blue socks on you.  It took me a while to get ready before I was at the point of putting on your shoes. By that time, your socks were no longer on your feet. So, we looked and looked for those socks. - everywhere.

Couldn't find them anywhere. So I gave up and decided to put on another pair. Guess where I found them?  In your sock drawer. You had taken them off and put them back into the drawer where they came from. You finally allow me to brush your ...<< MORE >>

April 8, 2007

We got home from our trip last night.  You had fun. I'm glad to be back home. ...<< MORE >>

March 29, 2007

For the 1st time, you started doing something like you've never quite done before. You imitate your daddy's golf swing. Last night in the living room he was pretending to swing with his hands clasped together. You did the same thing. You were exceptionally cute last night. You were dishing out the sugars left and right. And you kept kissing me on my nose!

The other day you were looking for your pacifier & you clearly said "paci, are you?".  Instead of saying "where are you", you said "are you". 

Your vocabulary:
more, drink, juice, shoes, hi, hey, ...<< MORE >>

March 28, 2007

You don't like to sleep with the covers on. You always kick them off. Yesterday you got your 1st pair of sunglasses. You're so adorable. You get mad at me in the morning because I make you take your pacifier out in the car & not take it into daycare. ...<< MORE >>

March 25, 2007

You're eating real cereal. You're sitting here adding your juice to your cereal bowl. Yesterday you and I played in the backyard. We must have played ring around the rosie 200 times. There's nothing to do in the backyard except that and running in circles. You and I ran around the house. You climbed on my back like a baby monkey & we ran around.

You fell off the steps outside. We were watching all the planes come into town and opening mail on the steps outside. You decided to get up and then lost your balance. Your ...<< MORE >>

March 21, 2007

Yesterday you kept getting cans of asparagus out from the cabinet. You're getting tall enough to reach the edge of countertops, so you put the cans on top of the counter. Very dangerous!  But I made sure they didn't drop & I put you in time out for it. I forgot about time out until you had already gone too far with it. I've got to learn to stop it BEFORE the asparagus exits the cabinet!

You have my lips and my eyes. Your dad would argue that you look like him. But I claim your eyes, mouth & ...<< MORE >>

March 20, 2007

Did I mention you are doing well with time out?  We've been putting you in time out for a week now. You climb on the table, so I put you in time out. The other day you were climbing on the table, & I told you that I was going to put you in time out. You climbed down & went to sit in time out. You pretended to cry as you sat down. I called the daycare to see if they put you in time out & they said no, but that you probably see them put the older ...<< MORE >>

March 17, 207

Your dad is putting in a new dishwasher. I've been doing dishes by hand all week. One day, your dad was watching tv while I was doing dishes. He had put a dirty cup on the end table instead of bringing it to the kitchen when he was done. Without any prompting, you picked up the cup and brought it to the kitchen so I could wash it. You were chattering when you brought it to me, so I assume you were telling me to wash it!

Right now you are picking up your toys - cleaning.

Earlier ...<< MORE >>

March 17, 2007

We're going to Texas soon. Maybe on Tuesday we can go to the Dallas Zoo. We'll stay at G'mas house until early Tuesday morning. If we leave early enough, we can squeeze in a trip to the zoo. I'm excited about the BBQ. ...<< MORE >>

March 16, 2007

You ate dirt at daycare yesterday. You were making mud pies. Yesterday I picked you up - usually we go out to the playground and you see us and come running. But yesterday they called out to you "Lincoln Wilson your mom is here". You came running. Your little legs were moving so fast!

It warmed my heart to watch. ...<< MORE >>

March 14, 2007

You are starting to do many things and you get cuter by the day. You started standing on your tip toes and you stomp around here squeeling & singing. It's loud and cute.

You seem to say the ABC's up to "D". ...<< MORE >>

March 7, 2007

I'm staying home with  you today because you have a fever. Yesterday I took you to the doctor because you had a rash but you ended up having 2 ear infections. I guess that's why you have a fever now.

You're playing with your blocks right now. We put a lot of change into your piggy bank. You put it all in there, actually. Your piggy bank is special because your daddy made it. He took an arts & crafts class in high school to be around girls. As a result, you now have a special piggy bank that ...<< MORE >>

March 6, 2007

Your eye is getting better. You developed a rash on your stomach because of your eye drops. It was $75 for a tiny bottle. Today you learned two things. You learned how to do a "wheelie" on your car and you learned the word "mine". ...<< MORE >>

March 2, 2007

You are talking a lot & you imitate everything. While your G'ma was watching you, you said a bad word. S**T is what you said. You were trying to put a book into your car console & it wouldn't fit. In your frustration, you blurted out the bad word. You used it in the right context. I remember the exact moment you learned it.

You have pink eye this morning. I'm taking you to the doctor.

...<< MORE >>

February 28, 2007

-This Entry Written By Grandma-

Lincoln, today is another day we are spending together and you make it a very enjoyable one. You are napping right now and when you awake you will have lunch and we will spend some time outside. You are my first and only grandsone right now and even if you were not the only one, you would always be special to me. You are such such an independent, smart, curious little guy and I know you will continue to be so. I remember when you were born and when they were taking you to ...<< MORE >>

February 27, 2007

Yesterday we went to the store. Your dad put you out of the shopping cart & let you walk. Guess what?  You began gathering items that you wanted. So, now you have bubble bath that you picked out yourself. You were also trying to get a magazine & it was adorable because when your daddy said "no", you replied "please". It was adorable because it was the first time you've said please to us without us prompting you.

You are adorable anyway!

You're a bit on the spoiled side. And you pick up after yourself well. You ...<< MORE >>

January 17, 2007

5 years!! ...<< MORE >>

October 13, 2006

We need to establish some developmental goals for you. Right now we're working on body parts. I want to start working on colors and reading. Actually, it's not as difficult as it sounds.

You already know your nose and belly. It's just a matter of coordinating your hands to point on command. we have flash cards written with words. You'll learn those 1st.

And writing.

We'll practice that more. You love to scribble now. But we really need to practice more frequently. You are a people watcher. Yesterday I picked you up from daycare and you were ...<< MORE >>

October 9, 2006

We have today off...you and I do. Your daddy has to work. Last night you were so adorable. Your G'ma was about to leave & as soon as you figured it out, you jumped off the couch and ran tot he door excited. You wanted to go with her.

I'm so excited!!!  You just told me that you wanted to go to the bathroom. So, we went into the bathroom and you peed in the toilet. You told me ahead of time!!!  Yeah.

It was so much fun. You are so proud of yourself. You also just told ...<< MORE >>

October 8, 2006

Last night I was irritated at your father because he did something stupid...he put his family in what I considered a very inappropriate situation.. You and I left the moment I came to that realization...it wasn't immediately clear to me. I'm not afraid to excuse myself from an awkward situation, but I figured he would not understand & he would think I was blowing it out of porportion. 

I never got mad at him last night, but I sure was deeply disappointed in his actions.

After he finally figured out a way to get home, he told me that the one thing ...<< MORE >>

October 5, 2006 12 months

My sleep is over. I have to get up early to clean the house. I should run, but really I just feel like writing to you. There is a song on t.v. called "Watching You". It says "my 4-year old just said a 4 letter word". You want to be like your dad also. I'm so proud of you.  But we won't actually tell you that if it's tied to a specific event. We think telling you in general overall -not in reaction to a specific event or accomplishment - is more effective. It's better for your emotions.

Telling ...<< MORE >>

October 4, 2008 12 months

You are so cute...did I tell you what you did the other day?

You were on the potty and grabbed some toilet paper. You started blowing your nose. Yesterday I was trying to get you to say "poo poo" but instead you said "da da". It was appropriate.

I've realized that I have to immediately replace things I take away from you or else we have problems. I have to put something else in your hand. Right now you're climbing on me trying to love on me. You are giggling.

Now you have my jump drive...you are ...<< MORE >>

October 1, 2008

Today is quiet. You are playing with my toes. Your toys are spread out all over the place!  Your daddy is playing golf. You don't like the "garden mashers" graduate foods.

I just tried giving you some and you spit it out. You might not be hungry though.

Tomorrow we're going to a neighborhood watch meeting. We're glad because we've had a few minor problems with kids stealing stuff...they stole our pumpkin and our gas can. ...<< MORE >>

September 30, 2006 12 months

We made it through the week. I wasn't worried about you at all because I knew you were being taken care of. When I came back, you looked different!  I missted you. Yesterday you and I picked up your canvas - a portrait of your 1st year picture on canvas. It's truly the most beautiful picture I've ever laid my eyes on. It's soothing.

You are so independent. Except you hate being in a room all by yourself. You've got to learn how to be by yourself. But we'll work on that.

You got to eat pancakes for the ...<< MORE >>

September 24, 2006

Today is your Aunt's birthday. Today I leave to go out of town, but it turns out your daddy gets to join me. You'll be at home with your G'ma. It will be the 1st time we've left you overnight since we brought you home. It will be strange!  But we will enjoy our alone time together. We've decided to try to have another baby. You will hopefully have a little brother or sister soon.

We're watching the rider cup on t.v. You went to get a golf club and ball for the 1st time you are trying to ...<< MORE >>

September 22, 2006 - 1 year

I'm about to leave and go out of town for a week. Your daddy will take good care of you. I'm NOT looking forward to it. I'm dreading being away from you. ...<< MORE >>

September 17, 2006

You are very whiny this morning and I don't know why, but I don't think you got enough sleep. Yesterday you wore your blue sandels. We took them off when we got home but you saw that your daddy still had his on. So, you pointed to his sandel and took yours to your G'ma to put them on you. It was so cute.

You are up to 7 steps now.

You broke out in a rash yesterday. I think it was from the eggs for breakfast. You've eaten eggs before, but not much. Yesterday you ate a ...<< MORE >>

September 16, 2006

We officially celebrated your birthday today. I made you your 1st b'day cake and you smeared it all over your face. We also went to watch the Wizard of Oz with your cousins. You had a blast. You were dancing and laughing the entire night. It was wonderful.

Tomorrow you have your 1st birthday pictures made. ...<< MORE >>

September 15, 2006

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Guess what you did yesterday?  You started walking!!  You took 3 steps, then you bumped it up to 4 steps. We videotaped you. You were so proud of yourself...you knew you were really doing something significant.
You didn't want to go to sleep, and you tried walking in bed! ...<< MORE >>

Setember 10, 2006

I went out of town to conduct training for the week. I missed you so much. It was awful being away from you.  Your daddy is about to go out of town also. It's funny because every day I was gone your G'ma came over to assist your dad with you. She watched you in the morning and all day. So, he didn't' have to experience all the responsibility. Plus, she cleaned up after him and you. I can tell she's been folding my laundry and putting dishes away because everything is not in its exact spot.

But let's ...<< MORE >>

August 27, 2006

You're going to start getting an allowance. You helped me wipe down cabinets in the kitchen. Compared to an adult, you're horrible at it. But, considering that you are only 11 months old, you do a fantastic job!!

I'm so proud of you.

So, I'll pay you $1.00 for your help. You even cleaned the floor. And I realized that maybe in a few more months, you'll be proficient at it. At that time, we will give you the responsibility of cleaning base boards too.

But now you'll get paid $1.00 each day you help wipe the ...<< MORE >>

August 25, 2006

You are beginning to stand unassisted. You balance well. You like to stretch - you think it's funny.

Oh, finally you're catching on. Sometimes you eat too much or too fast & you get gagged. When that happens, I encourage you to drink something by putting your sippy cup or bottle in your mouth. But you just now did it by yourself. You started coughing and immediately grabbed your sippy cup. You took a drink and washed your Cheerios down. Good job!!


You are so adorable this morning. You were giving your daddy & me kisses. It ...<< MORE >>

August 23, 2006

It appears that at some point during the day you cut another tooth (starboard side). It's your 8th tooth.

...<< MORE >>

August 22, 2006

Your little riding toy flipped over and you hit your head. There's a huge knot on your forehead. We threw the riding toy out.

You've had a cold lately.

You are still receiving occupational therapy. Your arms are very rigid. You have "increased muscle tone" vs. "decreased muscle tone", which you had a birth. It's opposite now. I'm not sure what happened. The therapist said she is baffled because most kids with increased muscle tone can't do what you do.

You must get your increased muscle tone from your daddy!!  You have steel. ...<< MORE >>

August 20, 2006

You amaze me. You were sitting on your potty trying to go pee-pee & you pointed to the trashcan. So, I said "trash" and you said "tash".  Then you said it again. No "r". You didn't go potty, but you did say a new word! 

Right now you and your daddy are playing. He is showing you his "steel"....his muscle & you are hitting his arm laughing. ...<< MORE >>

August 19, 2006

For some reason, you are a very early riser. You've been up since 4am. I get no rest!  Your dad has been laid up for 4 days now with a back injury. At work this week I interviewed 9 people, which reminds me that I need to help you with your resume.

Right now you are sticking your finger in your daddy's belly button.

So, maybe it's a bit premature for a resume. You have to develop more skills than just demonstrating that you've discovered your belly button. It's cute, but employers are expecting a little bit more than ...<< MORE >>

August 15, 2006

You are 11 months old today!!

Today you got another tooth!  It's your 7th tooth. You love to pull the plug in your blue bathtub when you take baths. You are also using your legs to climb up onto things more now. You love trying to figure everything out...like how electronics work mainly. ...<< MORE >>

August 13, 2006

You and I went to church this morning while your dad played golf.  This morning you said "bye bye" when we were leaving to go to church. Here's your vocabulary:

no
ball
bye-bye
da da
nay nay
mama
hey

You'll be 11 months in 2 days. ...<< MORE >>

August 12, 2006

It's raining this morning and you are enjoying the sound. You fed yourself and made a mess. I can't believe how messy you get. You like pretending to talk on the phone. You are jabbering a whole lot more.

You came home from daycare with little bruises on your legs. They said another little boy was fighting with you over a toy. But they said you don't start fights. You shared your toys with the other little boy, but he didn't play nice. He's just mad because you can crawl and he can't.

While ago you were trying to ...<< MORE >>

August 11, 2006

You started pointing. You pointed to me when I came home from work. It was adorable. You called me "mama" again. But you also still say "nay nay". I haven't noticed a real trend except you say "nay nay" when you are fussing at me. I think you said "mama" when you were demanding something.

Also 2 days ago when I dropped you off at daycare, for the first time you cried. I sat you down on the floor instead of having someone take you in their arms. ...<< MORE >>

August 6, 2006

I think we're going to give you an allowance when you reach a certain age. I'll teach you how to shop wisely. I think you are going to be responsible for purchasing your own personal care items at a certain age based on a budget...including school supplies and clothes.

Parents must teach children how to purchase wisely. I hate the concept of spending money. I like the concept of maximizing purchasing power.

You are learning sign language. You know "eat" and "drink". We've been signing to you for a few weeks, but yesterday you signed back ...<< MORE >>

July 29, 2006

You cover your mouth when you cough. You imitate us a lot.

  Yesterday I asked if you were hungry & if you wanted to eat some food. You crawled over to your high chair.

I think we're going to get your hair cut today.

You've said "mama" twice. ...<< MORE >>

July 29, 2006

Last night you played with your cousins. Your little cousin took 3 steps while we were visiting. She taught you how to walk holding on to your walker toy. ...<< MORE >>

July 16, 2006

You are sitting here beside me brushing your hair with your hairbrush. I suspect you are about to hide it underneath the couch. You are going to start walking any day now. ...<< MORE >>

July 15, 2006

They didn't draw your name for the 2nd round. But you got to hang out with your cousins. You were trying to be so nice to your little cousin, but she wasn't so receptive. You really were trying hard to be her friend!

It was sweet to watch. Your daddy is rocking you back to sleep. You woke up with a poopy diaper. ...<< MORE >>

July 15, 2006

Today is the newspaper's next $10,000 drawing for the savings bond. I'm just happy your cute little picture was in the paper...right next to your cousin's picture!! 

Yesterday you took a small step forward by yourself in your walker. You've had the walker since you were 3 months old but you've always gone backwards in it. No more!  You are moving in a forward motion.

Forward motion is a good direction. ...<< MORE >>

July 15, 2006

My hope for you is to be a leader. I believe leaders are developed...leadership is not just a natural occurance. Leading is not an accident. Leaders are made, developed. My goal with you is to shape you into a natural leader. People are already drawn to you. They instantly love you.

You're not even 1: Grown women have been moved to tears because they are no longer your caretaker.
You're not even 1: Hundreds of strangers have prayed for you.
You're not even 1: People remember your name. They do not forget it.
You're not even 1: You picture ...<< MORE >>

August 16, 2006

Last night you did the cutest thing. You got out your potty seat and sat on it beside your daddy. ...<< MORE >>

July 14, 2006

You just drank from a straw!!  You act like you're experienced at it. ...<< MORE >>

July 10, 2006

You love music. I think you like it so much because we sing to you 24/7. You are adorable. I got your 9 month pictures today. They're beautiful. You are the best baby in the world. All you want is to be loved. You show affection and you have empathy. You know when something is wrong, and you respond in an understanding and supportive way.

If we're sick, you recognize it and give us a break - you're not as needy as usual.

We enjoyed the baby shower yesterday until the dog attempted to violate you. You were ...<< MORE >>

July 9, 2006

You are so adorable. You love to hide things. You are also still highly interested in looking inside of things. we bought you a car to play with but you don't like it. You still play "cars" with other objects...books, wipes, the remote, your rubber duck, andything EXCEPT your car!

We went to the zoo yesterday. It was your 1st trip to the zoo. You like the sea lions the best. One of them kept burping!  It was funny. You're almost walking. You and I run around the house in circles. You literally run with me holding onto you. ...<< MORE >>

July 6, 2006

Today was your 3rd day at your new daycare. They adore you already. Your old daycare provider came by my office yesterday to drop off some stuff for you. I thought she was going to cry. I swear she fell in love with you. She said she hates to see you leave.

You call me "Nay Nay". It's the cutest thing, but we have no idea why. ...<< MORE >>

July 4, 2006

Freedom. ...<< MORE >>

July 2, 2006

You just ate & I gave you a bath. I le you play with your food so you got really messy. Your daddy lets you play like that when I'm not around!!  You get so messy; it's not practical to let you feed yourself all the time. So, every now and then you get to play and get food everywhere. You love to feel the food in your hands.

Our coffee table has all your blankets, bib, and burp rags inside of it. It has 2 "lids" on either side that lift up on a hinge. You love opening ...<< MORE >>

July 2, 2006

You wanted a bottle while I was in the kitchen, so you kept jumping up and down while you were on the couch with your daddy. I kept seeing your head pop up and down in the living room. It was cute. You got your bottle and were happy. You generally are able to tell us what youwant. It's a relief to be able to meet your needs and communicate. Your daddy is about to go play a game of golf this morning.

You are starting to "cruise" -walk around assisted. Right now you just take a step or ...<< MORE >>

June 30, 2006

Your 9 month pictures are going to be here on July 10th. I cannot wait. There were very inexpensive.

I do my personal activities while you and your dad are asleep. It's hard to write, clean, cook, talk on the phone, use the computer, etc. while you two are awake.

Early in your life (ha) when you were 6 weeks old, your specialist told me something that professionally reinforced what I already know - but her validation serves as a reminder to me.

She said her husband worked in the neonatal unit for many years of his ...<< MORE >>

June 27, 2006

You've started using objects as cars!  The other day you had an envelope and you were "driving" it on the floor. You've done that with various objects. You sing too. It's the cutest thing.  We love you so much. You have a duck bath tub.   ...<< MORE >>

June 11, 2006

You and our daddy are both sick today. Yesterday I was sick, and now you two are. It's 3 months until your 1st birthday. Wow!

You can take steps with me holding both your hands. You wobble but you totally understand the concept. I'm trying to make a diaper cake. I've been saving for it...saving diapers and misc. items.

You like to put things up to your face. You always like to feel new things. We were shopping and I looked down at you; you had grabbed clothes from the racks on both sides of you and I ...<< MORE >>

June 10, 2006

We bought you a new car seat. You're outgrowing the infant seat.

This morning your daddy put his head on my stomach and gave me a kiss. You got jealous!  You put your hand on his face and pushed him away. You fussed at him while you were pushing him away. It was cute. Then you put your head on my shoulder. We were laughing. ...<< MORE >>

June 8, 2006

You have bumped your head so many times, I think we're going to start calling you Lumpy. I can't believe it. I figured you'd have this amount of bumps by age 2, not two weeks after you start crawling!  ...<< MORE >>

June 6, 2006

Today marks 20 years since your grandmother was elected Justice of the Peace. I hope you are fair like she was. Looking back, I wish I would have been with her the moment she found out. It was a huge achievement.   She was elected JP on June 6, 1986. She got married on June 20, 1986 and died with my step-father on June 26, 1986 on their honeymoon. I'll show you one day where they are buried.

You have her hands - because you have my hands, and I have her hands!  We have long fingers. But you have your dad's ...<< MORE >>

June 3, 2006

We've been playing today. You had two different rattles in your hands....one in each hand. You paused and examined each rattle in the same manner separately. You really put a lot of thought into deciding which one you wanted to play with. Finally, dropped one and played with the one you decided on.

You just now for the first time pulled up to a standing position by yourself with now help. But when you were standing, you started clapping and lost your balance....you hit your head!  Your daddy couldn't catch you in time. You're all boy.

Earlier you ...<< MORE >>

June 3, 2006

Good morning my sweet son. Your and your daddy are asleep. You are growing so big. Time flies. I've decided to write to you until my hand gives out or until you get married. Whichever is first!

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June 1, 2006

Your almost 9 months old. Your mother needs to schedule your 9-month pictures. 3-6-9-12 months, and then yearly & special occassions.

You're just precious. I see the neatest camps and workshops advertised and I can't wait for you to be part of it all. I could write to you all day. But I don't have all day, just a few minutes here and there and mostly while you are sleeping.

You are crawling all over now. You get into everything. ...<< MORE >>

May 29, 2006

All you want to do is crawl around. You are starting to pull up on everything, even walls. It's sweet to watch. YOu are starting to dislike drinking a bottle. Not sure why. You are eating a lot of veggies and different meats. But you would still prefer to eat OUR food.

I think you are pooping right now. You're playing in your crib while I'm sitting in your room writing. You're grunting; I'll give you a moment.

Your dad is asleep. Oh my goodness...you are standing up in your crib giving me a speech - with ...<< MORE >>

May 27, 2006

Earlier you were trying to touch the entertainment center & I kept telling you "no". So, you started saying "no, no, no, no, no" and then you started shaking your head no. Then you switched it up to "da, da, da, da" which was so cute. You were also waving your entire arm at your daddy saying "hi daddy".
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May 24, 2006

Well, you saw your specialist today and guess what?  You started crawling. It was amazing. You are so cool.
 
She said she believes you have Cerebral Palsy (she didn't diagnose it officially though). Those are harsh words but they did say it's mild - subtle. Basically that means what we already know - there was an event inside the brain that caused damage. Don't get caught up with the term itself. It's truly a catch-all phrase, nothing more. The term is so overwhelming.
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May 21, 2006

You can drink from a cup very well now. But you're not all that great at monitoring your flow. You haven't crawled yet, but wow, you will any minute now. I swear, you talk. You say things that sound exactly like what you are trying to say. Yesterday you were hungry and I was trying to get you to say "food" and you got the "foo" part out nicely. But there was no d.

And yesterday, you were fussing...you looked like you wanted something. So I asked "what do you want?". And you said "Pi". So I said "You ...<< MORE >>

May 19, 2006

It sounded like you just said "I want to get up"...and you were trying to get up. It was so cute and really sounded just like you said that.
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May 19, 2006

(written by daddy)

I'm soooo proud of you Lincoln!  You've become a little man in such a short period of time. Yesterday you watched me cook on the grill for the first time. You loved it. You got realy excited when the burgers flamed up and smoke filled the air. I can't wait to teach you the "art of grilling"..it can bring your family together. I'm looking forward to you walking. Maybe then we can get you a puppy!  Love ya, Daddy 
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May 7, 2006

You can clap your hands, play peek -a- boo, give sugars and put your pinball in its place on your toy. You can ALMOST crawl. We count to 5 in English, Spanish and Japanese.
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April 22, 2006

I just wrapped your cousin's birthday present with brown plain paper. I gave you a marker and you drew all over it. You are only 7 months old, but I swear you were drawing. You didn't try to eat the marker. You kept drawing...it's scribbling but you clearly understand the concept. You initially made a mark and then stopped, picked up the pen from the paper and took a look at what you did. Then you started drawing again.

Your G'ma has you spoiled. She rocks you to sleep  and holds you constantly. So that's the only way you'll ...<< MORE >>

March 20, 2006

Last night you ate squash for the first time. You liked it so much you ate half the jar. then you changed your mond - you no longer liked it so you stopped.
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March 18, 2006

You know your name and you know your parents. Earlier your dad said "Lincoln" and you looked up at him really quickly. Your head spun around when he called you...you knew he said your name. Then he asked "where's mommy?" and you looked at me. Then I said "where's daddy?" and you looked at him.

So, you know your parents. We just did tummy time and you pushed yourself  up on all fours by yourself...briefly. I'm convinced you are very smart - gifted. You let us know when you want something because you stare at it. So we avoid ...<< MORE >>

March 4, 2006

It's 1:25 am and I can't sleep.

Whenever I rock you and stop, you grunt and kick your legs so I'll continue. I start back and then when I think you're asleep, I stop. But you start grunting and kicking your legs again. It's funny.  Your way of communicating.

Earlier your daddy was singing and were "singing" with him. You had no rhythm or variation in your tone, but it was a constant hum that went right along with your daddy's singing. I could just gobble you up.
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March 3, 2006

You were just trying to figure out the power source on the iron. You looked at the iron and followed the cord with your eyes to the outlet. You stared at the outlet for a while and then followed the cord back to the iron. You did that continuously until I unplugged the iron. Then you stared at the outlet.

You're moving backwards in the walker. While ago, you turned your walker 90 degrees to face a different direction. When you had your 6 month pictures made, you spit up on your outfit. I think we can fix it. ...<< MORE >>

February 28, 2006

You are so sweet. You look all around trying to find us if we walk out of view. In the car, you wach the trees go by and absorb everything.
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February 26, 2006

We're almost back to normal. You handled being sick so much better than your dad and me. We were wiped out. You got through it well. We're impressed.
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February 25, 2006

Our entire TEAM is sick - all of us. Your mommy and daddy are puking our guts out and it's hard taking care of you. I almost passed out changing your diaper. We're all dehydrated so I'm trying to give you Pedialite. You refuse to eat formula. I think you know it will cause you problems later. We're all laid up.

Today is Saturday - I think. It's hard to sleep. I feel extra sorry for you. You are so little. I feel 100% horrible and so does your dad, so I can imagine how you feel. But you've ...<< MORE >>

February 24, 2006

You have the cooties today. There is a virus going around. We took you to the doctor and he said it takes about 5 days to get well. It starts with vomiting and then the diarrhea hits. Sure enough - your dad stayed with you while I went to work this afternoon. He changed an explosive diaper.

You really seem wiped out. We were up with you all night and tomorrow I'm staying home with you. I feel so sad for you because you are sick. I wish I could make you feel better.
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February 21, 2006

You're so cute because you do little crunches trying to sit up when laying down. You grab your shirt and ry to pull yourself up by your shirt. Today when I picked you up, you were doing tummy time. I came up from behind you and picked you up. At first, you seemed startled but when you realized it was me, you got a really big smile on your face.

I felt loved!

It was nice because I'm not always sure you realize I'm your mommy or what role I play. I always try to do word association ...<< MORE >>

February 19, 2006

You sit up now all by yourself without any support. We suspect that you are cutting another tooth.

I'm trying to figure out how you can get a scholarship for college.


1. First of all, you are going to have to have some type of micro enterprise. That will allow you to have exposure to how a business is run. You can think about coordination, marketing, customer service, leadership, etc.

2. You will have the opportunity to learn skills. We will support you in developing what areas you are interested in. I believe your talents as ...<< MORE >>

February 14, 206

It's your first Valentine's Day!!
You brought homemade cards and gave them to everyone. You got a lot a lot of chocolate. Your mom isn't a gift person. Presents really don't do anything for me. Some people get really excited about presents, but not me.

Your dad didn't get me anything...he said he would give me a foot massage but he doesn't want to now!!  I'll get over it. Like he reminded me, at least I have indoor plumbing. Life could be worse!

At least I have a sweet little Valentine named Lincoln. That's all I need.
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February 13, 2006

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day and you have a party to go to. I made little cards and I'll help you sign them. You and your daddy are my special valentines!
...<< MORE >>

February 10, 2006

Tonight you went with us to do our taxes. Thank you!!!  You got us a tax credit.

Well, yesterday you got bitten by a girl. It left a little mark on your arm but you're okay.
...<< MORE >>

February 7, 2006

(written by daddy)
I didn't cry, but you did...only for a minute or two!  I'm so proud of how you handled yourself.
...<< MORE >>

February 6, 2006

Tomorrow your daddy takes you to the doctor for your 4 month check up. You're going to get shots!  He's probably going to cry. It's tough. It requires a tough daddy.
...<< MORE >>

February 5, 2006

It's your 1st Superbowl. You fell asleep during the 2nd quarter. You're a morning person but you did watch some of it with interest. Superbowl XL  It's a historical game, with the longest run in superbowl history. Willie Parker - Steelers. 75 yards. How would you like to have a name like Willie? 

Your dad was asleep when the superbowl began. Although I'm not a football fan, I do realize it's an important activity in a man's life. It's your 1st superbowl...you couldn't miss it.


your life is just so exciting. I just cannot wait to ...<< MORE >>

February 4, 2006

You just went pee pee in the toilet. We were singing the poo-poo-pa-do song & you were laughing. I just don't want you to think it's okay to poop in your pants on the couch.
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February 2, 2006

You now have 2 teeth! 
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January 17, 2006

4 years! ...<< MORE >>

January 16, 2006

I wonder what you think. I know you make connections in your head because when we go to turn out the light (which you actually do) you look at the light switch and the light. You know the switch connects with the light somehow. You've made that connection. You can't always maneauver your arms to turn it off each time, but you have looked at the light while your hand turned if off at the switch.

You're 4 months old and you know how to turn the light off. Things make sense to you now - routines. You know ...<< MORE >>

January 15, 2006

We can see a tooth today!  Daddy is cleaning your teeth and you are laughing.
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January 7, 2006

One more thing: you give kisses also!  You've been doing that for about a week now. But now, you give a really big kiss. We say "give sugars" and you put your lips on our cheek. It's so sweet.

...<< MORE >>

January 6, 2006

Yesterday was a big day for you. You began doing a few things differently. You rode to work awake for the first time. It's almost an hour drive & you always sleep. On the way there, you were hitting your bug. But yesterday, you also pulled your bug - it's on a string and creeps back up when you pull it down. You also held your arms up last night - both of them - it was as if it clicked with you that you'll get picked up if you hold your arms up.

We've been working on that ...<< MORE >>

January 1, 2006

We were all sleeping when we rang in the New Year.
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December 26, 2005

Yesterday was Christmas - your first!

Christmas Eve we read to you "The Night Before Christmas". You have a runny nose today.
...<< MORE >>

December 22, 2005

You sleep with your arm laying across your forehead. It's the sweetest thing!  You sleep all through the night really well. Your parents appreciate that!  You are teething a lot right now - to the point where you are fussy and want to chew on everything. Today you are staying home with your daddy. He kept you on Monday also. He has today off for Christmas, but I don't.

You are starting to sit up by yourself. Your balance is stll off, but you're working on it. Right now you are sitting on my lap and I think you ...<< MORE >>

December 19, 2005

Well, we're having rough financial times during this season. We had to cancel Christmas dinner at our house because we can't afford to buy all the groceries for Christmas dinner. We're not buying each other presents, only you. We'll get through it. Even you are helping us & contributing to saving money. As your daddy put it, you are contributing by using the "John Wayne" wipes. They are the generic wipes, which are rough on your bottom.

So, you have to rough it out with the John Wayne wipes!
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December 17, 2005

You turned 3 months old this week. You blow bubbles with your lips and you pull yourself up to a sitting position. You don't like to lay down anymore!  You have very strong somach muscles. Your joints pop in your arms. You are a happy and healthy baby.
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December 10, 2005

You've been laughing for about a week now. It's so cute.
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December 9, 2005

You are putting your hands together and touching things now. This morning you peed on your daddy after we gave you a bath. We're getting you a walker for Christmas because you are standing so much. Youa re also starting to lose your hair - it's in your bed!!  You scratch your face so I have to cut your nails a lot.

You'll be 3 months next week. Hard to believe!!
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November 29, 2005

Yesterday you discovered the bug hanging from your car seat handle. You kept hitting it over and over. You started doing it while we were in a waiting room. I was so excited about it that I almost started telling complete strangers that you had just learned something new!!  You are also starting to kick a lot. You have strong legs.
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November 27, 2005

You have a cold today. This is the 1st time you've been sick.  You've also been sucking on your pacifier better lately. Your dad and I are trying to adjust to all the changes that have happened in our lives.

We put up our Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. You like the lights. It smells so nice. We played Christmas music and had lots of fun decorating. You had your Christmas pictures made. I wasn't pleased with them, but one came out really nice so we had lots of wallets made and an 8 x 10. You ...<< MORE >>

November 25, 2005

Last week you said "elmo" on accident. But you just said it again. You are also starting to drool all the time - a precursor to cutting teeth. You stand up all the time too because your legs are so strong. But your arms need some work.
...<< MORE >>

November 24, 2005

You've been standing for a few weeks now. Your legs are so strong. You went to the doctor on 11/22 and he asked if you rolling over was an accident. He didn't believe me. You weigh 13 lbs. and are 23 inches long.
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November 12, 2005

You are starting to suck on a pacifier much better now. I want you to use one to help you fall asleep - it sooths you. But trust me, you are in no danger of becoming attached to the pacifier...I have to make you take one.

It feels so nice holding you in my arms. Your dad says you grew in the week since he's been gone.  You are getting so big. You've grown out of many of your clothes already. You smile at your mobile - the bears- when you are in your swing. It's the cutest thing. ...<< MORE >>

Novmber 121, 2005

Veteran's Day

You are starting to "talk" a lot more and you like to feel with your hands. You were touching your daddy's hair and smiling. Daddy came home today from being out of town for the past week. It was really good for him to get away but I really think you missed him. I sure missed him. I don't want to raise kids without him!

...<< MORE >>

November 6, 2005

You just rolled over all by yourself!!!  You are 7 weeks old.

We put you on the floor on a blanket and suddenly, you rolled over. We weren't even trying to encourage you. Your dad said "he just rolled over". It was amazing. Then, you rolled over 5 more times. You also slept through the night last night.
...<< MORE >>

November 4, 2005

It's 1:30 am and you want to play. You are wide awake. So, I put you in the swing and now you are staring at the ceiling fan and wall. You are fascinated by color contrasts. I'm really glad you like the paint in our family room. Your daddy painted it while I was pregnant. The colors are so crazy that we're the only ones who like them!!  So, we're glad that you do too!!

For the past 2 nights you have NOT cried from 7-9 pm. Usually you scream for 2 hours straight for no apparent reason.
...<< MORE >>

October 26, 2005

We just got back from the neurologist's office. She said she is concerned about your motor skills. If you don't start eating better by the time you see her again, she will refer you to a speech therapist. She is concerned that you are weak on your left side. She said your hand balls up the wrong way - thumbs in, not out. Also, your shoulders are "floppy". And your arms are stiff when you are on your back. She made a referral to a therapist to work with you. I'm just glad it's another set of eyes on you. ...<< MORE >>

October 22, 2005

Yesterday you discovered your friends on your swing - the bears on your little mobile. You just stared at them. You are eating more and more. I think when you cry in the evenings you are hungry and we rule that our because we just fed you. But you refuse to eat again if there is a break or a pause. So, we think you are full because you won't eat anymore. In reality, you are just taking a long break!

Did I mention that I ordered you your own 8 x 10?  I'm going to make sure you ...<< MORE >>

October 21, 2005

Well, we got through the other night. It was rough. You go see the specialist soon. She'll be able to tell us more info about your prognosis - which is probably good. You are alert and normally developing. You are holding your head up consistently and you are very strong. We work with you on muscle development and counting. We count to 5 with you all the time. Not sure that you understand, but sometimes when we get to 5, you smile.
...<< MORE >>

October 19, 2005

You're asleep right now. I go back to work next week. I'm scared to leave you with a babysitter. I will miss you very much. I feel a deep sense of guilt for working - for wanting to work. But I have to for financial and personal reasons.

You are stretching right now. It's adorable because you sound like a squirrel. You started smiling a lot. You hold your head up well.

Oh, I ordered you an 8 x 10 picture of yourself. it's important that you have pictures of yourself so you don't have to come ...<< MORE >>

October 17, 2005

You've been a month old for 2 days!!  We had your 1st pictures made. You slept through the entire session. This weekend your dad took you next door to watch a football game. I went over there to get something from him and your daddy was burping you. It was so sweet!  You are eating about 4 oz. now - sometimes more. I go back to work next week. I'm gonna miss you like crazy. You are getting so big.
...<< MORE >>

October 8, 2005

You're 3 weeks old. You are so beautiful. We're still trying to adjust to having you around. I've almost bitten your dad's head off. He's stressed out too!  But we decided to get it all straight and work as a TEAM. We're very proud of you. You are a good baby if we can anticipate and meet your needs in advance. It's the late night feedings that are the worst. You are so sweet.
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October 4, 2005

Time is flying by so fast. You're almost 3 weeks old. It's not as easy as I had expected, but we're getting by!  If I can anticipate your needs ahead of time then that helps. Otherwise, you will scream and cry until we figure out what's wrong!  You had your 1st check up with your pediatrician on Monday. You weigh 8 lbs. 11 oz and you are 21.5 inches long. You are perfect. You are the sweetest baby and the cutest I've ever seen. No kidding.

I can't believe you're home. My maternity leave is almost over. I hate ...<< MORE >>

September 30, 2005

I'm not sure if you could be any sweeter.  You are so little and so sweet. Yesterday you had 5 visitors. They thought you are adorable.
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September 28, 2005

Yesterday was your 1st full day here at home. I didn't know what to expect but it was fairly easy. You sleep a lot!!  But you also eat a lot and poop a lot. I was able to get a lot accomplished - laundry, cleaning the kitchen...I showered, pumped, had visitors, fixed lunch for your dad, made the bed, ironed 2 shirts for your dad. Oh, we also did your physical therapy exercises.

You are the SWEETEST baby. Your dad changed 2 diaper. You slept for 2 hours on his chest...tummy time.
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September 26, 2005

This is your 11th day in the neonatal unit. I'm soooo ready for you to come home. Your cat scan showed that your blood was reabsorbed. I'm pretty sure it showed that you are a genius, although the doctor can't confirm that part. You are the sweetest baby.

We're not really sure what exactly caused this. The nurses and doctors saved your life. You were born lifeless. No movement, no breathing, no crying.

5:05 pm
You're home!!!!!  Dana was your nurse today. She told the doctor that she didn't think you need to be there and to ...<< MORE >>

September 25, 2005

Well today was fantastic. We got to spend the entire day with you. You are such a good baby. Yesterday you gave me a frowny face. You made that look the entire time I changed your diaper because you had just been circumsized!  It was sad. You didn't take your eyes off me.
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September 24, 2005

You have a discharge plan!  You are eating well except you haven't figured out that you need to put your tongue down instead of at the roof of your mouth when you start to eat. You burp really well. You're starting to cry now - that's good!  The nurses kick us out because we stay too long.

7:10 pm
Your appetite is picking up. They are increasing your intake to 1.5 oz. Tomorrow you might start eating 2 oz. If you do that, then we're really in trouble! 

The past week and a half has been very ...<< MORE >>

September 23, 2005

Today they mentioned discharging you. You're eating an ounce every 3 hours now. I hope I can keep up with you.
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September 21, 2005

A few days have passed since I last wrote. You are still in the NIC Unit but you are improving. Each day you grow stronger. Each day you get cuter!  Currently they've taken you off all your meds and they're monitoring you for seizures. They say you should lead a normal and healthy life.

Today you finally got to eat. That's great because you are so hungry!  WE have to see how you suck and how you digest. those re two hurdles you have to jump before you are released. You are alert and cooing. For someone being hooked ...<< MORE >>

September 19, 2005

This is your 2nd night w/out a seizure. They took out your catheter last night. Yesterday you were sleeping when we visited. On one visit, you were trying to open your eyes to see your daddy. You are precious. They said you might get to start eating today or tomorrow. We feel optimistic that you will be coming home soon. I have a lot of hope and faith that you will be just fine.

You are so strong. Yesterday you were sleeping on your belly & your legs were stretched out. Then, you positioned yourself up on your knees ...<< MORE >>

September 18, 2005

This is the 1st time I've had to write to you since you entered this world. You are a beautiful baby and I've never loved anyone so much in my life. I'm so happy to finally meet you.

Giving birth to you will forever be one of the happiest and one of the saddest days of my life - if not THE happiest and THE saddest. During birth, you suffered great trauma - sub arachnoid hemorrhage. I'm still learning what that is, but basically it's bleeding in the brain caused from your little head being squished in the birth ...<< MORE >>

September 15, 2005

Okay, now my level of comfort has deteriorated. It feels like really dull pain, but it's constant for now. I'm handling it for now. I'm at a pain level of 3 now. Other than that, I'm not sure how much more I can handle.

10:25 am
(entry by daddy)
Mommy did so good!  I finally had to insist that she get an epidural. Now she's all smiles!
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September 14, 2005

Today is the day we check into the hospital. We were supposed to get up early this morning but your dad is sleeping in another hour. It was so funny because I was trying to wake him up but he said "I'm about to have a kid. This is the last time I'll ever get to sleep in". We're just happy to become parents.

So today we'll take care of last minute items. Yesterday you got a pediatrician.

You have a real shot at a wonderful life. -A life which officially begins tomorrow if things go ...<< MORE >>

September 13, 2005

Okay, we have an update. I dilated 1 centimeter (w/ help from the doctor, which HURT!!!). You're scheduled to be born on September 15.
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September 12, 2005

Today is your cousin's birthday. When will your birthday be?
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September 10, 2005

I'm starting to keep up with these contractions. Yesterday I was having them throughout the day & evening. but I've been up since 2 am and they seem very frequent.

5:22 am

Well, they're not the real thing. Just enough to get my hopes up. This is the hardest part so far - waiting. I can't really do a lot because I'm on bed rest. So I just lay around watching Hurricane Katrina coverage. It's depressing. If you are ever in a position of overseeing any type of emergency management, take all the risks seriously and communicate ...<< MORE >>

September 9, 2005

You're still not here. I'm still on bedrest.
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September 8, 2005

They've scheduled for you to be born on September 13. But I want it to be sooner!  This morning I have to get a biophysical profile. They're basically going to monitor you and measure your activity, muscle tone and amniotic fluid.

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September 6, 2005

Well, yesterday was full of contractions. I was certain it was the start of labor. But this morning I'm wondering if it was "false labor" because I've only had 2 contractions since 5 am. It's just after 6 am now.
 
...later...
 
It's the weirdest thing. I thought they would be harsh but they're very mild. I'm just afraid that the doctor will say it's false labor because I haven't dilated or thinned at all. I'm not  100% certain that I'm in labor - but I'm 100% certain that my body is doing ...<< MORE >>

September 5, 2005

Labor Day.
You are due to day. So, where are you?  You're still in my tummy and you don't seem to be in the process of coming out to join us. Tomorrow we're going to the doctor - so you might get evicted soon.
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September 4, 2005

Your dad really wants you to be born today. But I didn't have anymore contractions yesterday & I'm not having any so far this morning. Any day now you will join our family. I'm so happy. Last night we were at the grocery store & I twisted my ankle. No big deal - no damage. But it was scary and took me by surprise. I can't see my feet so I almost ended up falling down. I was able to grab onto a shopping cart next to me to keep from falling down.

This morning you have the ...<< MORE >>

September 3, 2005

(this part is written by your dad)

Yea!  Mommy just had her first real contraction!  It started in her back and transferred to her tummy!  Wow. We're really excited now. time 4:36 pm  15 - 20 seconds in length. Now she's clearing the plumbing...just realized, I've never written that word before. Can you tell?
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September 1, 2005

They're moving people into the Astrodome in Houston. Once they're moved, it won't feel like such desperation. I'll feel better once they're out. I wish I could adequately describe the feeling across the nation. You'll always know when it was that New Orleans got wiped out because you're about to be born.

Actually, your birth will be a welcomed mental break. I'm glued to the t.v. on bed rest and absorbed with everyone else's devestation.
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August 31, 2005

I'm unable to sleep tonight. There was a hurricane (Katrina) that hit Louisiana & Mississippi. Everyone is homeless. It's the worst nightmare for any family, much less thousands of families. It's heartbreaking.
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August 29, 2005

This morning was upsetting. First, it's Monday. Then my car wouldn't start. I had to jump it using your daddy's jump box. That was a challenge with my big belly in the way!

So I was late to the doctor appt, but he was late too. Once he finally arrived, he told me nothing has changed still. He said he can't induce yet either. Your dad is about to leave town for training & he doesn't seem too concerned that he might not be here for your birth. Now I'm beginning to feel very down & upset for the ...<< MORE >>

August 28, 2005

This is the week!  But not today.
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August 27, 2005

Hello my sweet baby boy!  I feel you squirming around in there. You're due a week from Monday, on Labor Day!  My stomach is growling - hope you aren't too alarmed. I waddle when I walk. Hopefully I'll be able to walk right again one day soon!  I think I forgot how to walk normally. I even waddle when I mow!  Two days ago I mowed the grass trying to get some physical activity & gravity so your head will "fully engage". The doctor said he can still move your head back & forth so it's not all the way ...<< MORE >>

August 26, 2005

Yesterday I mowed the lawn. This weekend your dad and I are going on a trip out of town on a date to an Italian restaurant. It promises that you'll go into labor within 48 hours of eating the eggplant. So, it will be nice to have a hot date & see if it works.

I'm 39 weeks on Monday. Each day brings more signs that you are getting ready; more Braxton Hicks contractions, more cramps, more lower back pain here & there....and I'm actually enjoying it all. It's uncomfortable and at times painful. But this is exactly how ...<< MORE >>

August 24, 2005

Today is a doctor's visit. I'm anxious to hear what he has to say. For the past 3 days, it's been hard to walk. I think you've dropped down even more. Something is different because I'm in a constant state of pain & discomfort. I predict you'll be born by Sunday. Your dad says no.

I'm excited about your birthday, but I'm just not sure when your birthday is!! 

So, I've had lots of contractions lately. Hopefully all that means is that you are getting ready to join our TEAM shortly.

later-

Well, NOTHING!!  The doctor ...<< MORE >>

August 21, 2005

Yesterday's shower was so nice.
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August 20, 2005

Lots to catch up on...

Today is the baby shower. I woke up somewhat emotional because my mom won't get to participate in it. Also, something extraordinary happened yesterday. Your dad's work threw him a baby shower. He called me at work & put me on speaker phone....to listen as he opened presents. It was such a thrill & I was very excited about it.

It's a happy time for us both because you are about to join our TEAM.
We love you!
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August 15, 2005

Today I had a contraction at about 4:30 pm. Then I had another one at about 6pm. They both lasted about 10 seconds. yesterday we put your car seat in the car. Your daddy put your swing together. You're gonna love it.
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August 14, 2005

So at the doctor visit, we learned that everything is developing & progressing normally. I thought maybe I had dilated some (hoped) but, nothing!  The doctor said you are at a normal weight and all is as it should be. At this point, I'm just physically uncomfortable and miserable. I'm sure you are too!!  You seem very cramped. I'm not sure how you could be comfortable.
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August 11, 2005

Today we went to the doctor - your dad was there. He heard your heartbeat.
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August 10, 2005

It's getting very close!  This past weekend you dropped down and I was having contractions. Last night I felt a constant pain - very intense. It was so painful I couldn't tell if I was having contractions or not. But I think the pain was just stomach problems - not anything with the pregnancy.

Right now your daddy is feeling your little feet and toes. He tap & talks to you & you tap back. You two are communicating.
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August 7, 2005

Yesterday was productive & you were very active. Today I was going to organize your room. It's almost done, but we have to complete it.
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August 6, 2005

Yesterday was 1 month until you are due. Yesterday was also one of the most stressful days of my pregnancy, and last night I had a horrible stomach ache caused from stress. I endured the pain for quite some time last night & didn't sleep well. It's the 1st stomach ache I've had like that since getting pregnant.

When you have a bad day at work, coming home is really wonderful and comforting. It's a safe place and there are people there to support, nurture & care about you. But if those people are mad when you get home, ...<< MORE >>

August 4, 2005

You were awake before the alarm went off this morning. Tomorrow will be exactly 1 month until your due date. One month and we will get to meet. I'm very excited. You must be also because this morning you are very active and wide awake. I need to go ahead and make a list of everyone to call when you're born.
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August 3, 2005

The other night you got the hiccups. It was so sweet. It felt like little thumps - just like your little kicks felt at first. Now when you move, it's sometimes painful, or you'll move right onto my bladder & then it's an emergency!

Last night your father & I participated in yard teamwork. He edged & weed-ate (?) and I mowed. We work well like that and can't wait until you can participate. It's a lot of fun.

Right now your dad is asleep, but the alarm went off, so let's see how long it takes him ...<< MORE >>

July 28, 2005

There are so many things I want to say to you!  We're about a month away from your birthday. It's an exciting time. You are growing - your dad says he has noticed my belly is bigger. I haven't had many problems with my very first pregnancy. Just swollen feet, stretch marks, indigestion & constipation. Other than those very common side effects, I'm normal!!  So far I've gained 33 lbs & there is a month left.

While I'm writing this, you are just very active. You're awake & that's good. I hope you are an easy riser. Then again, ...<< MORE >>

July 23, 2005

Today I'm going to teach an emergency preparedness class. This is something I want to continue once you are born because you'll eventually be able to accompany me.

Your dad warms my heart when he talks to me.

....later...
Well, the class went well. They said that you are going to grow up to be the director of FEMA. ha!  I never thought of that. I envision you doing that type of volunteer work, but I guess if you're exposed to it form the womb, then it makes sense that you wold be prepared for bigger & better ...<< MORE >>

July 20, 2005

Lincoln Brooks Wilson -
 You have 3 last names. I woke up this morning thinking about change & how you hold the power to change the future.
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July 16, 2005

Our August 1st deadline is approaching. We need to have your room & everything ready by August 1st.


Baby Bag List:
$40 cash
Carmex
Pens
Email Addresses/phone numbers
Lincoln's journal
lotion
nursing pads
nursing bra
pair of socks
snacks
cooler of ice from Sonic
outfit for Lincoln
camera
charger
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July 15, 2005

Yesterday during the sonogram, you were so sweet. You yawned & put your hand over your mouth until you were finished yawning. Then you smiled!  You are a happy baby. I don't have to have a C-section.
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July 13, 2005

Tomorrow we find out if I have to have a C-section. I have a low lying placenta that hopefully has moved out of the way! 
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July 9, 2005

Today my stomach growled & you jumped. It was funny, but I hope you weren't traumatized!!  I tried to calm you by rubbing my belly; you seemed to calm down.
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July 7, 2005

Last night was our second birthing class. It was a lot of fun. We giggled the entire time on the mats while we were supposed to be relaxing!  As your due date approaches, I grow increasingly anxious. I'm scared I won't be able to handle motherhood like you need me to. Trying to coordinate childcare is overwhelming!  Not to mention the guilt I feel leaving you somewhere. 

You are wide awake right now. I can't figure out if you're going to be a night owl or what. Sometimes you sleep in during the morning, but for the most part, ...<< MORE >>

June 30, 2005

During this pregnancy, I've traveled a lot. Mostly across the state, but I also went to my childhood home for Easter.

My G'ma had just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's so I wanted to spend some time w/ her. She & I have always had a special relationship, but it lately we've been even closer. I realize that she's not replaceable. Her mind is full of information - memories I want to know. Plus, I think she's wonderful because she always makes me laugh. Her stories are always funny...like when she cooked Aunt Ginger's pet chicken for dinner. Ginger is ...<< MORE >>

June 29, 2005

Learn from our mistakes and our successes. You are responsible for creating your own life...from the marital relationship quality to your level of job satisfaction - you only get out what YOU put in. If you see something you want for yourself, it is up to YOU to put forth the effort to make it reality in your life. Success takes time. Be patient. It can take years - months. But one thing is for certain: you must invest time and energy into everything worth having and worth keeping.

Invest in your career, your marriage, your important friendships, your ...<< MORE >>

June 26, 2005

In the past few days, you've slowed down. You're not as active in my belly. I guess you are growing so much that there isn't much room to move. We've been trying to get everything around here ready for your arrival. Your dad has been doing all the work mostly.
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June 23, 2005

Today I've been having lots of Braxton Hicks contractions - more than usual. For the 1st time, I had a huge contraction that almost took my breath away. It was startling more than anything.

We start childbirth classes next week. I'm excited. Hopefully you'll be born naturally, but we know that we may have to have a c-section. Time will tell. I am confident that I can have you without any drugs or pain medication. I'm sure I can handle it!  We'll see. Last night your dad was so happy thinking about all the neat stuff you two can ...<< MORE >>

June 19, 2005

Today is Father's Day & I'd like to say a few things about your father & why he's so special. He is amazing. We agree on many concepts of  parenting - I trust him to make the right decisions. Have a father is important in any child's life. It's such a wonderful blessing that your father gets to be a father himself. he will be a supportive, kind & honorable dad. You'll be proud of him. He will devote time & love to you so you will never have to feel like you missed out.

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June 1, 2005

Each time I eat, you move & kick. It's a neat feeling. We want you to be prepared & well rounded. So, we listen to classical music. I'm reading the constitution to you....time will show any significant value. Your potential is ceilingless.

When your father was born, your G'ma was on her way to eat at McDonalds. So now he loves McDonalds. So far, I've been drinking a lot of milke & eating Cheerios and fruit. I'm also trying to eat a variety of veggies - low in sodium. You should like a lot of vegetables. Your father is ...<< MORE >>

May 6, 2005

Well, I'm getting very big at this point...actually, YOU are!  I can't see my feet & it's hard to maneuver
around. Right now I'm 5 1/2 months pregnant with you. But I look like I'm 7 months. It has been an uneventful pregnancy. Last weekend your daddy felt you kick. It's so adorable when you're moving. He is so happy to have an opportunity to be your father. I hope we do okay. I hope we can handle parenting!  we've been preparing. We've been learning. We've constructed our parenting style & have formulated a plan. It will come naturally, I'm sure. ...<< MORE >>

April 27, 2005

I've never seen your father happier than when he saw you moving around during the ultrasound. Then we saw that you were a boy!!  He started high-fiving me at the doctor's office. Lincoln Brooks. That is the name we've chosen for you. I felt you kick (like a little thump) today. You move around a lot!!!  Right now I can't see my feet. My belly is so big with you in it!  This week your cousin was born. She's so sweet.
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February 15, 2005

I'm 9 weeks pregnant now. I got the sweetest gift on Valentine's Day. I saw you moving around inside of me!  It was a surreal experience and it brought much joy to my heart. You are a hyper baby!  I'm due September 5, 2005. Everything is fine so far; we're just anxiously awaiting your arrival!

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January 24, 2005

Right now I am 6 weeks pregnant and so far, no sign of morning sickness. You got a heart beat this week. what a huge gift to receive - I get to grow a baby!!  I can't even grow a plant, but I'm doing good at this so far. Right now I'm not sure what your generation is called. I'm Gen X, your cousins who are older and my little brother are Gen Y. What does that make you?

Parenting is something I truly want to do well in. Your life is so important and vital to my life. ...<< MORE >>

January 17, 2005

3 years! ...<< MORE >>

January 3, 2005

This morning at 4:45 am we found out that you are on the way!  We've been trying to get you here since March. So, it's a wonderful event. I'm scared and happy at the same time. Everything is about to change. We're about to devote all our time, love, energy and money to you!  That will take some getting used to. We're so selfish right now. It will be a rough to change - or maybe not. Maybe it will just be natural and easy. Time will tell. It always does. We'll be good parents.

Your father is excited ...<< MORE >>

March 26, 2004

We're just waiting to add you to the team...I'm pretty impatient, so could you hurry up?  ha! ...<< MORE >>

March 24, 2004

Today we went and played paintball. I feel so old. My body aches. But we had so much fun playing. We just really enjoy each other. ...<< MORE >>

March 4, 2004

Life has given me many blessings, and I hope you are even more fortunate. It makes a difference if you have a good family...supportive and loving.

Life is rough enough by itself. Your father and I want to be stable, structured and supportive. Not that you'll be spoiled...we do want you to experience some level of doing without. You'll develop a healthy respect and appreciation for what we provide you. You will not have everything your heart desires by design...on purpose. You'll have the basics. But excess will not be the norm in our house...luxury either.

You will NOT have ...<< MORE >>

March 3, 2004

Today we started...we threw away the pills. We are officially trying to have you! ...<< MORE >>

January 8, 2004

Your dad was so charming and cute the first day we met....with his green coveralls all rolled down his waist. the only reason he got off of his rear end was because someone told him a girl was at their squadron (a rare occurance, apparently) with a jet. So, he got up and helped me bring the jet into the hangar.

I just remember it was like an intrrogation. I wish that I could go back to that day...if I would have known he was my future husband, I would have taken detailed notes of the words we exchanged. ...<< MORE >>

December 22, 2003

Your father has a wonderful mom, but never really had a relationship with his dad. That's sad because your father is so wonderful. His dad missed out on knowing and raising a great man. ...<< MORE >>

September 20, 2003

This is being written for my children. Although at this moment, we have not yet met, I have a deep love in my heart for you. Perhaps writing to you now about your parents will help give you some insight about who we are, why we're like we are, and hopefully it will give you a deeper understanding about you. By the time you are old enough to read this and understand its meaning, you will already be an adult, maybe even with your own family.

As I write this, your father and I are less than 2 ...<< MORE >>