A lot has happened since the last time I wrote to you...you are officially a big brother now! You have a baby sister....when you found out that the baby was a girl, you said "I knew it". You were so proud of yourself for knowing that you were having a baby sister. You call her "baby" instead of her name!
The other night she was crying and you held your hand up like a stop sign to her and said very calmly "baby, please, just a little quieter. I'm watching tv." It was adorable because she was screaming her ...<< MORE >>
You got in trouble this week during karate because you wouldn't listen to the karate teacher. He didn't give you a sticker as a result, and you were highly upset. But you didn't deserve a sticker! So, we made you a sticker chart so you can associate stickers as a reward instead of an expectation. Today after church you were helping pack and clean up so you got a bonus sticker because you were working so hard. You remind me of myself with the way that you like to do physical labor. I will take credit for that...I'm sure you ...<< MORE >>
Earlier tonight you were trying to play on your favorite website, but the computer wasn't exactly moving at the speed you thought it should. You said "what is wrong with this stupid computer". I don't have to guess where you picked that up from because I'm certain those exact words come out of my mouth at least once a week.
Your daddy and I had the day off of work, which meant you had the day off of daycare. I hate that you have to go to daycare. You've come home with some vulger behavior lately and I don't ...<< MORE >>
You are sitting here putting bugs down my shirt as I write...and you are laughing your head off. They are actually the plastic bugs (72 to be exact) that you got for Christmas. I'm pretending to be afraid of the bugs in my shirt and it's making you laugh even more!
You can do math and it's something we haven't even worked on! You wanted to go to your G'ma's house because you heard she had cookies at her house. After she explained to you that she only has 2 cookies, you said "well, I only want to eat ...<< MORE >>
It is the 1st day of our week long vacation. I am so excited because we're going to the Master's par 3. We have a lot of other things planned, so I shouldn't be sitting here on the computer wasting precious time! But I want to take a minute to tell you about a good deed your daddy did...it was a true act of love towards me, and one that was completely unexpected.
The other night we were at Carrabba's and the second our food hit the table, you announced that you had to "go poop". It couldn't ...<< MORE >>
I wish I had a good April Fool's prank to play on you, but the truth is you are sick and that's not too funny. Last night you came down with a fever & you were acting very poopy. Your G'ma said when she picked you up at daycare, you were dragging your feet and acting really sluggish.This morning you weren't much better so I took you to the doctor. Of course, by the time you got there your Tylenol had kicked in pretty good and you were acting fine, and without a fever!! My main concern was that you might have an ...<< MORE >>
Drum roll…..tonight you wrote your name from memory all by yourself. Usually I have to write it for you to copy from, but tonight you did it all by yourself!!
Whatever we teach you shows up weeks (sometimes months) later…it’s a delayed reaction. So, tonight you demonstrated a skill you and I began worked on Valentine’s Day…and we’ve worked on it since then, but I made a huge effort on Valentine’s Day to really make it stick with you. And I guess it worked.
Of course, I could be mistakenly taking ...<< MORE >>
Your G'ma informed me that it's been over a month since I've written to you. So, I have a lot of catching up about all the little things you are doing these days. This is going to be a bunch of rambling trying to catch up on details of the last month, so it might not all flow very well.
I really like this age. One main thing you've been doing lately is helping...you are very service oriented, and you have such a cooperative spirit when it comes to helping out.
You seem to really enjoy helping me cook. ...<< MORE >>
It is clear that your love language is physical touch. You always want us to rub your feet, scratch your back, scratch your head, hold you and love on you. It's funny because you are just like me and it helps your daddy understand my love language better. So, thanks!
Yesterday you helped your daddy clean the vehicles. You came inside all dirty because you had helped clean the wheels. You tell him that he is your super special best friend. I love the relationship you two have. Last night you laid your head on my belly and talked to your ...<< MORE >>
I love how you say refrigerator...you say "fritter frator". You crack me up.
You are such a good little helper...you insisted on helping me make breakfast this morning. We made omelets and toast. You beat the eggs and put the cheese on the omelets. You also handled every aspect of making the toast (except for removing it from the toaster), and it was very yummy. You were so proud of yourself for helping make breakfast. I was very proud of you because your attention to sanitary conditions. You walked into the living room when you started coughing, and you ...<< MORE >>
We've been without cable and internet for over a week, but I figured out how to use the air card so we're back in business....well, half way. You were fine without cable, but I think you reall missed playing disney games on the internet....or the "puter" as you call it.
You've started telling me and your daddy that we are your best friend. But when it's time to go to bed, you make sure to let us know you don't like us anymore. It's funny! Your g'ma brought you over some new underwear and you liked them so ...<< MORE >>
I love that you can really comprehend and absorb everything we say to you. If I want something to really stick out in your mind, I have to break it down Barney style....but once you get it, you really get it. And I love that you are a kind, caring little boy. You've started telling me out of the blue lately that you love me, which warms my heart. The other night I had to giggle because you were eating your cookies (the ones that the lady at the store bought you) & you asked me if I wanted one. ...<< MORE >>
It's official: your G'ma has hired a little old lady to follow us around the grocery store & make sure you don't leave without junk food in hand. I should have suspected something when we first bumped into her on the cookie aisle...you were really having a hard time choosing between Pop Tarts or cookies, so I helped walk you through the decision process. She must have seen the whole thing.
She ended up behind us in line & overheard me telling you "no" when you were trying to sneak M&M's into the mix of our groceries. Then you ...<< MORE >>
Earlier you tagged along with me to venture out into the cold, rainy weather to grab a bite to eat. I was in search of something with a drive thru so you suggested "donalds"...which made the decision easy and cheap. I'm okay with McDonald's now that we can order apples instead of fries in your chicken nugget happy meal....you don't realize that the fries are missing!
So, as we approached the drive thru, you spotted the indoor playground and completely reacted with pure SHOCK!! You said "Oh, donalds has a slide inside...I want to go inside". At this point, ...<< MORE >>
You've stayed at home with your daddy for the past 2 weeks, and you and I are both dreading Monday when you have to go back to daycare. Yesterday was the beginning of 2009. Your daddy reminded me that we met 9 years ago...that seems like a really long time, but it's just the beginning actually.
Yesterday I was sorting through some things in the office, and I ended up throwing away a bunch of stuff we don't need....including one piece of your artwork. In 2008, I collected no less than 200 different pictures you've drawn, and I even though I ...<< MORE >>
Now your daddy is sick. You had 4 straight days of fever...poor baby! Yesterday (Saturday) was your first full day without a fever since Monday but you are still coughing and have a runny nose. So, we're just hanging out at home today.
Yesterday you and I went to the store to stock up on some food and paper items. I really enjoy taking you shopping with me because it's an opportunity for you to learn about value and nutrition. Taking you to the store always makes me laugh!! Yesterday I was trying to decide on buying a can ...<< MORE >>
Yesterday we came home from our Thanksgiving trip to Alabama. It was such a good time, and we got to visit with a lot of family, including my grandma. You were soooo attached to your "big grandma", and you kept crawling up in her chair to sit next to her. You were so gentle and calm while you were sitting by her. You are as attached to her as I am! It was just sweet watching you and her together.
You said the best part about your trip to Alabama was "the puppies". Every morning the first thing you ...<< MORE >>
You just expressed your cocern about your own financial stability during the current economic problems facing our nation. We didn't realize it's possible that a 3 year old could be worried about the economy. But as we were discussing what we're going to do for our week off from work, I mentioned to you and your daddy that we need to deposit your piggy bank coins into your "big bank".
Well, that prompted a strong reaction from you. You made sure to inform us that the big bank is closed because it's "broke" and nobody is there. You went on ...<< MORE >>
You have a double ear infection and a touch of pneumonia, but I had no clue until you suddenly developed a fever late this afternoon. We took you straight to the doctor, and I'm glad we did because who knows how bad it would have gotten otherwise. You were energetic with no hint of being sick, so I wouldn't have known you were sick.
You're actually a pretty tough kid and you were really good at the doctor's office. Tomorrow your g'ma is going to stay home with you because she already has the day off. What luck!! ...<< MORE >>
You and I tried a social experiment at the store earlier, with highly successful results. You are a naturally shy child, and this causes a certain level of awkwardness in social settings when you refuse to speak to people or acknowledge them when they speak to you. I fully understand the concept of being uncomfortable with socializing...you are my son, so you take after me!! However, being shy is only "cute" until you are about 5 years old. Well okay, it wasn't very cute when you didn't speak to anyone for 2 hours during your second birthday, but you get a pass because you had just ...<< MORE >>
Gas price today: $2.49
Your G'ma just whisked you away to play at your cousins' house, and your daddy is gone too. So, I have the place to myself and can't think of anything better to do than write to you. I've really been slacking on writing to you lately, so I have a list of things to write to you about.
Gas Prices:
Your daddy told me he wants to me to tell you what the gas prices are on a regular basis. So, whenever I think of it, I'll post it at the beginning ...<< MORE >>
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The logic of a 3-year old is complicated to understand. You insist on wearing your underwear backward. I can’t figure out exactly why, but I have noted that you only wear them the wrong way when they have pictures on them. You have no problem putting on your plain underwear correctly.
Saturday you went outside to wash all the cars with your daddy. It was the cutest thing when I walked outside and say you in the middle of giving your little play car a bath too! You washed it, then rinsed it with the water hose….just like ...<< MORE >>
Our family gets a C+ in our test of a day free from technology. One big discovery of the day is that I do not want to live the rest of my life without all the technological conveniences in life…technology makes our family more productive and efficient.
However, it was a quiet day, and we got lots of sleep...which was different!
The first difference is that I didn’t set our alarm, so we slept in until 7:30 am. It was fantastic, but without coffee, I never fully woke up! Instead of going to daycare, you tagged ...<< MORE >>
I'm declaring tomorrow "No Technology Day" in our household. Yesterday I informed your father of this, and he just looked at me in disbelief. We are spending one day being old fashioned, and it's truly unbelievable.
What a day free from technology means:
Television: It means the T.V. will not be on during our morning routine, or at any point tomorrow. We won't instantly know what's going on in the world the second it happens. That's fine with me because most of the information I put into my head doesn't matter...it's just taking up brain space that needs to be used ...<< MORE >>
How I know there wasn’t a mix up at the hospital when you were born:
It’s perplexing how easily you fall asleep in the car. We’ve determined it’s definitely not because your car seat is so wonderfully comfortable. I really need to hurry up and pinpoint exactly what it is about the car that induces a deep sleep for you so I can bottle it…as soon as I make that big “discovery” your college education will be covered.
You had a very big day ...<< MORE >>
You are going into SPACE!!! NASA is sending your name into outer space as part of the Kepler Mission to find Earth-size and smaller planets. This is your first step to becoming an astronaut, should you choose that career path.
However, over the past few days you've expressed more of an interest in becoming a farmer. You have created a farm that has exactly one cow. You are dedicated to maintaining your farm, and you are exploring possible expansion options.
You've even introduced a dinosaur to be friends with the cow, and you've arranged for a very large aquatic animal to visit ...<< MORE >>
I forgot to mention something that ended up being a very minor incident while we were on our trip. We were driving (speeding) down the road, we got pulled over. You saw the lights and heard the sirens and said "look, a woo woo car". That's what you call emergency response vehicles of any type....they are "woo woo" cars.
So, we got pulled over by a woo woo car...it was actually a state trooper...and after he explained to us that he was only issuing a warning, your daddy asked if he could please say hi to you in the ...<< MORE >>
You had a great time playing with your cousins today. You all swam in the pool and there was a bubble machine. You swim like a little fish and it's adorable watching your little feet kick in the water. You took a late nap and now you are awake way past your bedtime!! Oh boy.
You said you were hungry for pizza...actually, you said you are a dinosaur who is hungry for pizza....you said "I can eat it all by me self". It's funny because instead of doing things all "my"self, you say "me"self. You sound just like a little leprechaun when you ...<< MORE >>
I'm not going to repeat all the curse words that flew out of your daddy's mouth while he was putting up the molding. Actually, there were only 4 different words...used mutliple times and in a variety of new ways!! If we find that you've added them to your vocabulary, it's pretty obvious where they came from.
I'm about to fall asleep writing...I definitely turn into a pumpkin when it gets past my bedtime.
I love you my sweet baby boy!!
So today is Thursday...and our week of being off work is almost over. Today you and I are going to make a trip to the grocery store. This morning you woke up...when I came into the room to say good morning to you, you said "please take me to my daddy". You are highly attached to your father! I carried you into the office to see your daddy, and you asked to take your shirt off like daddy.
You love him sooo much! Today and tomorrow we're just working around the house making some repairs to close out our ...<< MORE >>
We watched an imax movie full of fighter jets...surprisingly, you seemed highly interested until you fell asleep towards the end of it! The highlight of your trip was playing with the doggies at my cousin's house. It was good that you got your doggy fix because that's as close to getting a real dog as you're going to get until you're an adult!
We made a pitstop at the railroad museum, and the most interesting thing about it was that a train passed by going about 60 miles an hour...I took some pictures of it passing, and ...<< MORE >>
Last night your G'ma came to visit, and she fell asleep sitting straight up on the couch because she had been up since 2am. After I gave you a bath, you really were determined that your G'ma was going to read a book to you, regardless of if she was awake to do it.
So, you brought her a book and said "gaga, read me a book", and she mumbled something in her sleep, so you got really happy and told me "she said yes". But then there was no follow through with her actually reading the book because ...<< MORE >>
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It's been a little while since I've had any time to devote to writing you because all my free time lately has been devoted to work for a deadline. So, right now I cannot sleep...and want to take this sleepless moment to write you while the opportunity is here.
The other night you told your daddy "Daddy, you have poo poos in your mouth". At first I throught you were telling him that his breath was stinky, but he had just gargled with mouthwash a few minutes before. So, maybe you were just teasing him.
Last night you ...<< MORE >>
You were singing in the shower last night, and you continued to sing long after you got out. It was so sweet, even though I'm not sure which song you were actually singing! You went potty really well all evening, but you couldn't poop on the toilet. We'll work on that part some more! You didn't have a wet pull-up all evening, and I bet you'll wake up dry this morning too. You're doing so well at going potty in the toilet when you wake up.
When we went to your cousins' house this weekend, you did really good ...<< MORE >>
You talk in complete sentences while sleeping! I heard you say, while sound asleep, "I don't want to close my eyes". You repeated it twice in the sweetest voice. You are definitely sweet when you sleep, so it makes sense that you have a sweet voice also when you sleep!
Time just flies so fast. Before we know it, you will be grown.
You have officially call your Aunt, "Auntie". I find it cute and unusual because I grew up saying "Aunt" so & so...never "auntie". So, Auntie it is for you. The other night I was sending your ...<< MORE >>
Today is the 1st day of hurricane season! Let the fun begin...Actually, maybe the fun is ending since tornado season is winding down.
You are so adorable. You want so badly to be just like your daddy...you take your shirt off if he has his off. You imitate him every chance. That's a huge responsibility on his part because if he slips up and does something that isn't so desirable, then you'll develop that same undesirable behavior.
I've asked your G'ma to coordinate "cousin day". Your Auntie and I have talked about getting together once or twice ...<< MORE >>
We also ate at Marietta Diner, which serves the best chocolate mousse cake known to man. It was so delicious. We ended up going to the Georgia Aquarium & you really enjoyed it. It was a lot of fun watching you take it all in...you got to see alligators, sharks, octupus, pinguins, sting rays, and whales all up close. When you are older, I think we will try to take you on the week-long summer camp at the aquarium.It seems like a really neat summer camp, and since it's the world's largest aquarium, it would be a highly educational experience ...<< MORE >>

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Good morning my sweet baby boy! You have started to really get into this whole potty training habit. You really enjoy being able to go potty by yourself, and you won't let us help you with any part of it. You've been using the big potty...you move your little step stool to the toilet & climb up all by yourself. I cringe because I think you're going to fall off...or IN...but you don't!
Yesterday when I dropped you off at daycare, there were two kids screeming/crying. You didn't want to go into your classroom so you just stood ...<< MORE >>
There is a mysterious fever is going around your daycare, so last night I asked you how you feel. You said "I feel better, much better". And you said it with so much enthusiasm.
Last night was a big night for you...we got to go out to eat with your G'ma, then we went to the library (you did NOT want to leave, so we had to promise to bring you back on "Friday"), and then we went and got some chocolate-dipped cones, which are not on the food pyramid.
So, it was highly enjoyable, but we couldn't find ...<< MORE >>

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You are such a bossy little boy...you aren't afraid to make your expectations known! I wonder where you get that from? But you are sweet, even though you are two!
Your daddy had a dream that he went back to Hawaii and your piggy bank was there. He made your piggy bank when he was in high school. At the time, he didn't realize he was making it for you!
Yesterday morning when you woke up, you asked your daddy if I went home to my house. I guess with me being out of town so much lately and ...<< MORE >>
Yesterday evening you and your daddy put up our tent in the backyard. You kept saying "my house, my tent", and you ordered me not to leave the tent. You wanted so badly to bring your car inside your tent...which you actually did against my advice. So, you had to go inside for a while because you didn't mind. You cannot stand being inside on a nice day.
Your daddy grilled pork chops, and we ate dinner outside. It was very enjoyable family time.
You didn't eat your green beans, but at least you did eat the vitamin I put ...<< MORE >>
You and I had a very enjoyable evening together while your daddy was at the range. We went out to eat at our favorite restaurant & you behaved very well. You're behavior is easy to redirect these days. But, you still have issue with telling me "no" and telling me to "go away", and we're working on that. It's inherent to the terrible twos, but at least you are receptive to corrective action.
There is hope...maybe that behavior will magically disappear when you are 3...maybe!
You started to develop a nasty habit of wiping your mouth with your arm! ...<< MORE >>
Your G'ma is giving you a bath right now (yea ga ga), so I'm taking this minute to write to you. Yesterday you had on your daddy's shoes & I commented to you about how you grew up so quickly. I guess you thought I said "threw up" because you started making gagging noises laughing!! It was funny, but I had to explain the difference between "grew up" and "threw up".
It make me have flashbacks to when you puked repeatedly in January. You contaminated both of your parents..I mean, we were covered in your puke. But neither one ...<< MORE >>
You Consistently...
I just reveiwed your kindergarten curriculum. You are definitely on track to have the knowledge necessary to get through your first year of school. One of the main skills you'll be introduced to is the concept if reading maps...very basic stuff. But my goal is to have you know all the states by your 3rd birthday. We'll work on the United States 1st before we move onto the entire world.
Another concept you'll need to know in kindergarten is comparing and contrasting items. Actually, you'll do fine in that area also because you've already mastered the skill of ...<< MORE >>
We went to an airport event today in search of family friendly entertainment (i.e. parachuting) and family friendly food (i.e. free). Much to our disappointment, the timing of our visit didn't coincide with the entertainment schedule. Everybody else in town was in the free food line, and we aren't patient enough to wait our turn, so we decided to go in search of food elsewhere. On our way out, we made a pit stop into a different terminal, which had a nice view of the flight line.
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Your daddy turned down the correct street today on the way home & you seemed to approve of his route...unlike yesterday when his driving choices caused you to have a prolonged meltdown.
Lincoln, we've discovered that you have a very serious personality disorder.
The official name for your diagnosis is "The Terrible Twos". It's so severe that your CAFAS score would qualify you for some extremely intensive mental health treatment to address the Terrible Twos disorder!! I'm not entirely convinced that you can grow up to live with dignity and respect as an adult after behaving like you do at times!!
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Poor baby! You’ve had a stomach virus. You’re on the tail end of it with diarrhea and except for one tragically explosive episode, you’re getting back to yourself. The doctor said you’re not dehydrated. This all started the night before last.
Oh, that was a lovely night.
You puked 17 times, went through 8 shirts, 4 pairs of pants, 1 bottle of Pedialite, and 2 loads of towels. There was a 2 hour stretch when you didn’t throw up. I fell asleep during that time and awoke to a gagging sound. You were sitting there throwing ...<< MORE >>
I think we're going to give you an allowance when you reach a certain age. I'll teach you how to shop wisely. I think you are going to be responsible for purchasing your own personal care items at a certain age based on a budget...including school supplies and clothes.
Parents must teach children how to purchase wisely. I hate the concept of spending money. I like the concept of maximizing purchasing power.
You are learning sign language. You know "eat" and "drink". We've been signing to you for a few weeks, but yesterday you signed back ...<< MORE >>
This is being written for my children. Although at this moment, we have not yet met, I have a deep love in my heart for you. Perhaps writing to you now about your parents will help give you some insight about who we are, why we're like we are, and hopefully it will give you a deeper understanding about you. By the time you are old enough to read this and understand its meaning, you will already be an adult, maybe even with your own family.
As I write this, your father and I are less than 2 ...<< MORE >>